Hello, everybody. Happy Friday. Hope you have been having a great week and not a super freaking

wonky week like I have been having. But on today's episode, I'm actually going to be sharing

with you kind of a vibe club sneak peek episode because this episode was recorded for my coaching program

back in January. And I think it has a really important message that a lot of people need to hear

when you kind of feel like you have two voices going to battle in your head and deciding which you're going to negotiate for.

So one thing I wanted to add in real quick before we get into the episode is I will be closing down enrollment for Vibe Club. So if you have been on the fence wanting to join, enrollment will be closing May 31st.

So you can go to vibe withmagie.com if you are ready to sign up.

Oh, yeah.

Yeah. Hello, everybody. I have got my heater on, so hopefully you cannot hear that, but I'm freezing,

so I got to keep it on. So I was thinking about something this morning, and I I want to share this with everyone in vibe club because it's been something that's been helpful for me and something

that I think if you don't realize that you're doing it, it's going to slow you down. So that is

negotiating. I want to talk about negotiating against your goals. So like the process of

habit creation, it gets harder and harder the more willing you are to negotiate with yourself.

I don't know what your general thoughts are about negotiation. I think ever since I was little, I was a negotiator,

but I don't love being in negotiations with other people. I don't like negotiations at a car

dealership. I don't like feeling pressured to buy something. I don't like negotiations. I don't like

negotiations. I really don't like negotiations with myself. And looking back

on my process with everything, with all of this, with losing weight, with healing my relationship

with food, I realized that when it was the hardest, I was negotiating with myself at every single turn.

And what I see so much with you guys is the frustration that comes and also the exhaustion that comes, the mental exhaustion.

This feeling of like, I just, I'm so tired.

I don't want to think about this. And like,

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