Okay. This is so weird. This is the weirdest. This is the weirdest of the weird. People, it's not a child. It's not a child. You don't need to do this.

Hello and welcome to another episode of Finding Mr. Hyde the podcast. I'm Allie, back with my co-host Rourke. Rourke, I want to hear all your updates because I feel that there are a lot. But first,

I wanted to give our listeners a quick trigger warning. As you may have seen in the show notes, we're going to be talking today about grief and

dating, and we will put the timestamps of when that conversation starts in the show notes.

So if you didn't see that and you don't want to hear that, you can go check that out to know

when to stop listening.

Perfect.

So, yes, I have many an update. Hit me. I'm very tired right now. I'm just going to put that out there. Not entirely because of like social life, but just because like my brain power is very tired with like studying in life. Yeah. To, you know, just follow up on things that were, um, that I think the loop is not

totally closed on.

I know that we did say on the episode and I post on Instagram that the downtown man

did not make a plan for a Sunday date.

No plan for the downtown man.

Yes.

So he did not make a plan for Sunday. He had texted me

on Wednesday when he canceled the Wednesday date. I'm a planner. I'll get you a plan tonight

for Sunday. There is zero chance that this man is a planner. Definitely not. And also, like, way to set sort of like

the false expectation. Like, I didn't need a plan that night. Like, give me one on Friday night,

maybe. Like, I'd take a Saturday, frankly. Under promise over-deliver, my guy. Totally. So,

he then does text me on Monday, the day after the supposed date day to day.

And it reads, I really dropped the ball, completely got sidetracked and screwed the pooch.

I didn't mean to disappear. So sorry, and I will leave you alone, just letting you know I was an

idiot.

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