179: Have Solution Based Conversations
The Chris Harder Show
Chris Harder
4.9 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 22 November 2018
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
In This Episode You Will Hear About:
- Solutions based conversation vs. a wildfire conversation
- What types of conversations we have more of
- What sparked this topic
- Offering solutions rather than reinforcing the negativity
- How to shift your conversations
- Turn the conversation around
- Adopting zero tolerance policies
Resources:
- Now accepting applications for the 2019 For the Love of Money Mastermind as well as VIP Days and one-on-one coaching. Go to fortheloveofmoney.com/mastermind or drop Chris a line at chris@fortheloveofmoney.com!
- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.
Show Notes
Today I'm going to share a little life hack that is an ABSOLUTE must. This hack is going to help you attract those next level people and relationships into your life, and be the person that others want to be around. Heck, this is the one hack that will even help you make more money. That's right, I swear by it. So, what is this life hack? Always, always have solutions based conversations.
Question Highlights:
- I want you to think about the last 5 conversations you've had. Who have them with? What did you talk about? Have they been solutions based, or were they wildfire conversations?
- What is the difference between a solutions based conversation and a wildfire conversation? Which conversations do we tend to have more of?
- Why do I think this topic is so important to share with you all? Once I realized the types of conversations I was having, and decided to shift them to being solutions based instead, everything changed.
- Why do we default to wildfire talking rather that rise to a solutions based conversation? Simple, it's easier to jump on the bandwagon.
So, what can we do?
- Be hyper aware of what conversations you are participating in.
- Try to turn the conversation around.
- Adopt a zero tolerance policy for wildfire conversations.
Quotes
"There's very few things you can talk about in life where you cannot offer somebody some great advice and make it a solutions based conversation."
"It's easier to just join on the bandwagon, join in on the gossip, join in on the complaining."
"We train people how to treat us, we train people what conversations we are willing to have, not by what we say, but by what we do."
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | I challenge you for one minute to think about your last five conversations. |
| 0:06.4 | Really picture them. |
| 0:07.6 | I want you to think about what you guys talked about. |
| 0:09.4 | Who were you having them with? |
| 0:11.0 | Have they been solutions-based conversations? |
| 0:17.0 | Welcome everybody this is for the love of money where we are making you unapologetic about your |
| 0:25.0 | pursuit of success by sharing the tools, tips, and stories of those who have |
| 0:29.5 | already made it. My name is Chris Harder and each week I will bring you incredible |
| 0:35.0 | guests in order to prove that when good people make good money they do great |
| 0:39.8 | things. my two cents and today I'm actually going to share one of my little life hacks with you that is an |
| 0:55.2 | absolute game changer but before I do I want to remind you that right now I am currently enrolling the last handful of spots for my elite 2019 mastermind. |
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