I dreamt that you were twisting through seven sons of gold and the gypsy was insisting

that his story must be told I came two in the morning but I took it as a warning that you might be a treasure.

I could touch but never hold.

Hey there, everybody.

Welcome to the service of podcast.

This is Veronica Valley.

I'm actually flying solo today.

Chip was meant to be joining me to record this.

It's been a little bit under the weather. And we have an eight-hour time difference, so we don't, we have a sort of limited

number of options when we can record together. So we decided I'd just do this one on my own,

just for the sake of getting it out there, because we wanted to talk about codependency.

So today's topic is about codependency. So today's topic is about

codependency and it's we answer your questions. So we've taken some questions from our community

and service for life about codependency. And that's what I'll be answering today. So hopefully

you will find this useful. I'll explain what good dependency is. As it can,

but a little bit confusing. Before I get started, I want to let you know the Soberful retreat

is happening next week. We are really excited about this. It's a great two-day online event,

two whole days together. We do a deep dive into some really good subjects. We get to have fun. We get to laugh. We get to learn a lot of things. It's all recorded. So you can keep the recording afterwards. You can ask questions. And hopefully really make some real progress in the work of your sobriety. So please go to sobysb.com, sign up for that.

If you haven't, it's a not-to-be-miss event. I'll be hosting it. It will be there.

Tamara will be there and we'll have a little bit more time. So let's talk about codependency.

I had never heard of codependency until I got sober. I had no idea what it meant, but it was

very quickly revealed that I was extremely codependent. And there's two, well, there's lots of

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