My cousin asked me, you know, Chris, everything in moderation, right?

Yeah, if you want a moderate life, I want an exceptional life.

I go one shot at this, I'm going to go for it.

I mean, do you want a moderate life? Do you want to be average? I'm going to pass a mic over to her.

Well I actually had a question for you, Chris,

because you know, I appreciated the story

and, you know, kind of sharing the value of the hard work,

especially in those initial years in your 20s.

But what I was curious about was what was the cost.

Because we talked a lot about benefit, right?

Of course, like there were lots of gains, lots of opportunities, that momentum that endorphous, right?

But I wonder, was there any cost that came with that period of your life as well?

Like, did relationships suffer?

How did you manage in terms of like your sleep, your mental health? I just was curious.

I love you for bringing up this question, Diddy, because most, I mean,

dudes are, yeah, bro, this is what we do, pump it up.

And you're like, wait a minute, what was the personal cost?

What was the cost of your relationships?

What was the cost to your body and to your stamina and everything else? your than that I'm just kidding. All right. It did cost a lot in personal relationship and I'll tell you for those five years I literally did not go on any vacation to take any holidays I worked through everything. My cousins and my uncles and aunts would invite me to come up north. I wouldn't do it.

I grew up in San Jose, the majority of my extended families in San Jose, I'm living in LA,

I'm just going to stay here for the most part.

Because I was singularly focused.

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