The reality is, you do not accept my influence. I'm very unhappy. I've looked it up.

It's really bad for our relationship. What are you going to do about that?

There's no criticism in that. There's no meanness. There's no threats.

But it's assertive and it's serious.

I'm Amy. And I'm Abby. And as women, we are constantly comparing ourselves to others.

But your life isn't supposed to look like hers. Being your best south means standing firm in

your decisions and always being willing to grow with a purpose. We get vulnerable and real,

with an honest look into the challenges and triumphs we all face. Every woman listening

gets the opportunity to choose what life looks like for herself.

If you are in a romantic partnership of any sort, you are going to love today's conversation.

We sit down with Elizabeth Ernshaw, who is a licensed marriage and family therapist.

She's also a mom, author, pre-marital counselor, and she's the voice behind the very popular

Instagram account Liz listens. What we loved about this interview is that Amy and I are getting

free marriage counseling. We really open up. You get a behind the scenes look into some of the

conversations that we have with Drew and Colin. We talk about what we said, what we could have said

differently. And she also just affirms that sometimes we need a little bit of tough love.

And other times, we need to change. But she really gives solutions to the very common problems

that everyone has in relationships. Our minds were blown. We wanted to keep on talking with her.

And we know that you're going to love this interview as well.

Liz, we're so excited for this interview because you're truly an expert at navigating conflict

and relationships. And what we love about you is that you not only teach people who are just

beginning their partnerships, how to help with strategies and be proactive, but you also help

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