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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

#175: When Men Are Addicted to Porn, Part 1

Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Authentic Intimacy®

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 18 September 2017

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Ashamed. Broken. Afraid. These are just a few of the words that describe a man addicted to pornography; ashamed of his actions, broken by his sin, and afraid of losing everything. On this Java with Juli, Dr. Juli Slattery is joined by Jonathan Daughtery, who decided that the journey to healing from sexual addiction was well worth the pain he would have to go through to get there.

Guest: Jonathan Daugherty, Be Broken Ministries

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0:00.0

This is Java with Julie, and today my guest is Jonathan Dardy, and you just taught me how to say

0:05.8

it rhymes the party, but it's not spelled that way. Right. It's got a lot of extra letters.

0:10.4

A lot of extra Irish letters in there, yes. So you're here visiting in Colorado Springs to do some

0:14.9

work with the Navigators, but you live in San Antonio, Texas, and you are the founder and president of, I would say, a men's

0:23.7

ministry that is very much like authentic intimacy is for women.

0:27.5

Kind of.

0:28.0

I think we have a little bit broader reach in terms of our mission in terms of trying to

0:32.2

say we want to connect and grow the entire Christian pure sex community.

0:36.1

But our ministry started really having a primary focus on men

0:40.9

and then couples. So that's kind of our birth of our ministry was really focusing on men.

0:46.4

Yeah. And you came to a board meeting of ours about a month ago. And I wanted you there

0:51.7

partly because I feel like you're sort of a big brother to the ministry because you've been doing this longer than we have. And even as we were talking about growing pains in our ministry, you were like nodding your head. Like, I remember that. I was there right about that same stage. Yeah, and I'd say I remember about maybe two or three or four times like that in our ministry throughout the course of our ministry.

1:12.4

Oh, great. That means I have to go through more cycles.

1:15.0

Don't fret that. We've been going for 14 years. And so I think about every three or four years, there's always a need for maybe like a refresh and just taking a look again at what's what's our direction are we staying

1:29.0

on course because i see this happen all the time in ministries and churches there's mission drift

1:34.8

you know you get going in a certain direction and then just the mechanisms of all that it takes

1:39.8

in terms of activity and events and all kinds of stuff you you look up one day and you go, wait,

1:46.0

are we still going the same direction?

1:48.0

It's kind of like when you're in a car and you're driving and you look out the window,

1:51.1

you start veering in that direction.

1:53.2

Yeah.

1:53.4

Yeah, that can easily happen.

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