I can't compete physically so I've got to work on my sexapil my body language my conversation skills

I've got to work on these things you've got a choice either you quit and become bitter by a cat or you take action

Do you ever wonder what makes a man go for a woman or a woman go for a man? It's funny dating because it feels almost and this is especially true when you're married or coupled up,

it feels almost peripheral. You're not dating anyone and perhaps your friends aren't really anymore

and this idea of going to meet a new

person just feels like a funny thing that a former you once did a university

student with a silly modern app of some sorts but dating and mating

meeting the one is at the heart of everything and you only have to watch those

David Attenborough nature shows to see how fundamental it is to who we eventually became.

And so with that as a bit of an introduction, I wanted to present today's guest.

It's Keseya Noble.

Keseya is one of the top dating gurus,

perhaps even the world's leading female dating and attraction expert.

She has all sorts of courses for men who are anxious about

meeting women on her website Kezia-Noble.com including the seven-day

mastery course made up of one-to-one training that she does with people.

She helps men build up the confidence to approach women and then to think of stuff to say

in the subsequent conversations, which is harder than it seems.

I suppose we can all sit here sort of smugly, those of us who are in relationships, and go,

oh God, it's just having a conversation.

But that's a little bit harsh, and we should remember that it is hard, you know, when you're in that sort of bar setting and there's music playing and you've done the hello and you've said a few jokes and stuff and then you've got like, well, two hours with someone, with whom you have no frames of reference so it is a bit

tough and she's got all sorts of tips for that I think those tips help not just

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