You know that feeling when you sing out loud in a car and you're so happy and then you get the word wrong?

And then it suddenly feels like such shame.

Welcome to the lavender lifestyle, the podcast on personal growth and lifestyle design.

My name is Eileen and I'm here to guide you to become a master artist of life.

Every Sunday you'll get new insight and inspiration

on how to create your dream life.

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Life is an art.

Make it your masterpiece.

Hi my love, welcome back to the Lab and Dair Lifestyle it's Eileen

today we're talking with content creator Ivan Lam on gender identity self-confidence

and finding and becoming yourself.

Before we get into this interview, I want to remind you to check out the 2021 Artist of Life workbook,

a guided journal to help you plan your most intentional and inspiring year,

with exercises on self-discovery, self-love, and life design,

it's a tool to take you from where you are

to where you want to be.

You can check that out at shop.lavendare.com.

Our guest Ivan Lam is a content creator living in Los Angeles

with a focus on self-care, gender identity, and beauty. He really just wants everyone to

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