Hello, hello, hello. Welcome to another episode of the Sabrina Zohar show. My name is Sabrina Zohar, and I am your host. Hi, babes. Welcome back to another Friday. And this one's a special one. We're going to get real fucking vulnerable because we're going to talk about the fact that you're not alone and struggling, that you are not the only one that's going through stuff right now, and that a lot of us are going through a shit ton of turmoil.

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It's funny, I have this episode slated for next year.

I've been welcome to anxiety. I have things built out for the next six, seven, eight months. And I just started to notice, as I was reading in a lot of the questions that you guys write in or the question box on Insta. Like, as always, guys, if you want the Sabrina Zoharshow on Instagram, I do question boxes for

solos, for guest episodes, to understand what you guys are looking for. So feel free to follow along. And the one commonality I saw was it wasn't just one struggle. Because as I was going through it, I was like, okay, let me find, is it this, is it this? And I was like, holy shit, we're all just struggling right now. And I wanted to get some data, get some statistics,

get some understanding so that we feel a lot less alone. Because I know when I was going through

my therapy, my journey, like especially when you're dating, when you're single, like, it's easy,

right? It's easy for me now to be like, oh yeah, of course all of these variables make sense.

It's like, because I'm on a different side.

But when I was broke as fuck, it was just me and Clem living in my apartment, I had very few friends,

my business wasn't doing as well, all of these things. Like, I was overwhelmed and I felt alone.

And I will say the one thing I always felt as I was dating, especially in New York, was I always thought everybody else has it normal and everyone

else has it figured out but me. I'm the one that's insane. I'm the one that's psychotic. I'm the one that's anxious. I'm the one that's hyperventilating. I'm the one that's creating narratives. Everyone else seems to have it figured out but me. So I must be the fucking problem. And what I didn't realize was that I was just alone without realizing that misery sure as fuck loves company because other people are

struggling and all of us are fighting a battle. And I think it's really important for us to be aware that you're not alone while you're doing that and I'm by your fucking side threat at all. So let's get to it, shall we? Because I can all but guarantee you, your therapist probably as a fucking therapist. Your life coach is Googling how to get their shit together at 2 a.m. and the motivational speaker you followed just at a fucking panic attack in their Tesla. And the reason I bring this up is because what if the people you think have cracked the code of life are just better at hiding their breakdowns than you are? Because you guys, we're in this fucking together. Here are some of the questions that you guys had asked. I can't stop

obsessing over someone who doesn't want me. Why do I keep choosing the wrong people? I know what I

should do, but I can't do it. Everyone else has seems to have it figured out but me. And that is the

reality. You are not alone. A lot of people are fighting their own battles. They're just a lot more

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