166 Why Your Marriage Feels The Way It Does

The Place We Find Ourselves

Adam Young

Hope, Christian, Christianity, Healing, Story, Trauma, Psychotherapy, Mental Health, Restoration, Heart, Sexualabuse, Health & Fitness, Adamyoung, Therapy, Attachment, Interpersonalneurobiology, Religion & Spirituality, Limbicsystem, Neuroscience

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🗓️ 16 December 2024

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

I am joined today by Dr. Dan Allender and Dr. Steve Call to talk about the complexities of marriage relationships. Dan and Steve recently co-authored a book titled, “The Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight.” If you are committed to the growth of yourself and your spouse, marriage will be hard. Today, Dan and Steve talk about how the look and feel of our present marriages are tied to each partner’s past story. We also discuss stuckness, shame, neurons, and blessing/cursing.

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0:00.0	Before diving into today's episode, I want to invite you to join me for a conference that's coming up on Saturday, February 1st, 2025.
0:10.0	This conference is about how to understand our fears and anxieties and how to respond to them.
0:18.1	I've invited Rob Bell to join me in co-teaching this conference because Rob
0:22.6	recorded an audiobook on this very topic that has been incredibly helpful to me personally,
0:28.4	and I struggle with anxiety on a regular basis. Among other things, Rob and I will talk about
0:35.1	how to move from weathering the storm of your life to witnessing
0:40.6	the story of your life. And that is such an important shift. Your story deserves to be
0:48.5	witnessed and it needs to be witnessed by you. Okay, to sign up, go to Adam Youngcounselling.com. Rob and I would love to have
0:57.1	you join us. It's going to be a meaningful time. The title of the conference is on fear and failure,
1:04.6	moving from my life is an endless struggle to My life is a compelling story.
1:12.0	It's gonna be so good.
1:14.2	Welcome back to the place we find ourselves podcast.
1:18.0	I'm Adam Young and I am delighted to be joined by not one,
1:21.4	but two guests today, both doctors,
1:24.3	Dr. Steve Call, Dr. Dan Allender, the authors of the soon to be released book titled
1:32.6	The Deep Routed Marriage, Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight.
1:38.2	It comes out January 21st.
1:39.8	Gentlemen, it's good to have you.
1:41.1	Thank you, Adam.
1:42.0	Such a privilege to be with you.
1:43.8	You know, I don't think I've heard somebody actually say the whole time. So that was sweet. Thank you.
1:48.9	Well, it's a lovely subtitle and we will get into over the course of the next 45 minutes,
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