Hi there, today I'd like to talk to you about how you can actually change other people.

You see, I think we all have someone in our life who would like them to be able to really

have more happiness or to let go of certain negative behaviors.

It could be our child, it could be a sibling, a family member, it could be a partner, it could be our child it could be a sibling a family member

it could be a partner it could be someone at work sometimes people have issues

and we want to be able to help them and we want to be able to show them a way which

they can actually have the happiness they deserve or for that matter anything

I mean it could be about letting

go of an issue it could be about any negative habits and behaviors they like to

let go of but they just don't know how now of course the first thing we try to do

is to tell them how they should change or tell them what to do but I don't know about, but if you've ever been told what to do or to be told you even have a problem and you should let it go,

it doesn't make you feel good on the inside. It doesn't make you feel like changing for that matter.

It just makes you actually feel more stuck and you actually become more passive aggressive and you

actually don't change and at the end of the day we want to be able to help people in our

environment want to be to help those who are closest to us so how can we actually help those in

our vicinity and in our life without telling them that they should change or telling them

that this is how you do it because as I said telling them some or telling someone how to be

different doesn't always go down very well now this is how I suggest helping those in your life and

it really comes from you personally. Because it's not about telling people to change,

in fact it's about being an example of that change. You see, the chances are they are conscious

of the issue, they're probably aware that they

don't like doing that behavior because at the end of the day who likes running

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