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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

165: How “Sexual Expectations” Affect Your Relationship’s Potential...

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 11 May 2022

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship.

There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, which says that sex should be amazing from the start and is entirely about natural chemistry.

Then there’s the “sexual growth” mindset, which says that sex can improve over time and couples can work out sexual differences.

In this episode, Matt and Stephen discuss the difference between these mindsets and what they mean for a potential relationship.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

If needing the big show is what's always needed, you know, the dinner, the candles, the thing,

0:06.2

the romantic music, the insects are just intimidating.

0:09.6

Welcome to the Love Life Podcast, another in this wonderful series of Love Life Podcasts

0:35.3

with me, Matthew Hussey and you, Stephen Hussey.

0:37.7

Hello there, pickles, peaches, puddings and pears.

0:40.2

And speaking of which, Matthew, we've had some e-mails in.

0:43.9

Sorry, speaking of which.

0:46.0

Speaking of my introduction, we've had some e-mails in responding to your call for whether

0:50.9

calling our audience pickles is appropriate.

0:53.3

Oh, so speaking of pickles.

0:55.0

Yes.

0:56.0

Okay.

0:57.0

And Matt, it's a resounding thumbs up.

0:59.8

What does that mean?

1:01.8

Well, Karen, onto the main reason for my e-mail, Matthew, don't you dare say that.

1:07.6

I'm not saying it's a Steven's use of the word pickles to address the audience.

1:11.1

I look forward to it now and you need to accept it's just a part of the show.

1:15.4

You do you, Stephen.

1:17.3

Thank you, Karen.

1:18.3

Sorry, this isn't an empowerment thing.

1:20.8

Laura says, I love pickles as an innocent and tribal term of endearment.

1:26.7

Shelby, leave Stephen alone.

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