165: Decenter Men & Watch Your Entire Life Change
BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko
Margarita Nazarenko
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 17 May 2026
⏱️ 27 minutes
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Summary
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What happens when you stop making men the emotional centre of your life?
In this episode, we’re having a very honest conversation about what changes when you stop obsessing over dating, relationships, texting, validation, and what men think and start putting that energy back into your own life.
Because the truth is, many women don’t actually have a “man problem” they have a focus problem.
We’re talking about:
✨ why obsession is not femininity
✨ how over-focusing on men creates anxiety, overthinking, and emotional dependence
✨ why male validation can quietly become an addiction
✨ how to stop making relationships your identity
✨ what actually makes a woman magnetic
✨ why decentering men doesn’t mean becoming cold, bitter, or anti-love
✨ how to become more secure, grounded, and genuinely attractive
If you constantly find yourself:
- overthinking texts
- checking his social media
- needing reassurance
- making dating your main emotional focus
- feeling anxious in relationships
- losing yourself when you like someone
…this episode is for you.
The most magnetic women are not the women obsessing over men. They’re the women deeply engaged in their own lives.
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| 0:00.0 | The episode you've been waiting for |
| 0:10.2 | on the being her podcast is finally here. |
| 0:15.6 | How to decenter men and watch your life change. |
| 0:20.4 | Watch the men flood to your gates, to your doors, and you like Helen of Troy shall dismiss |
| 0:26.7 | them because you've dissented them. |
| 0:28.5 | You don't care about them. |
| 0:29.5 | They are gone. |
| 0:30.5 | They're not interesting to you anymore. |
| 0:33.3 | Listen to me and listen to me good. |
| 0:36.0 | Once you unlock the secret of decentering men, you will not just have men. |
| 0:41.4 | You will have everything flock to you. |
| 0:44.1 | Opportunities, the universe, God, manifestation, work, career. |
| 0:51.2 | Frick and hell animals are going to come out the woods like your snow mother effing whites and trail |
| 0:57.4 | behind you as you glorify yourself with your feminine energy but jokes aside i think and those |
| 1:04.5 | aren't jokes by the way those are real this i'm just saying jokes aside for the sensitive ears |
| 1:08.0 | who cannot comprehend such magnitude and such glory. But what I think I've |
| 1:13.2 | learned in my 30 plus years is in my 20s, look, in my teens, men did not exist. Like, they |
| 1:22.3 | existed like maybe Backstreet Boys on posters and Jack from Titanic, things like that. |
| 1:29.7 | Then in my 20s, men became quite an obsession, not because I was obsessed with men, but because |
| 1:35.3 | societally in every way, you're just conditioned and programmed. |
| 1:42.4 | And hormonally, your estrogen is like, hey, I want to be pleasing to men. |
| 1:46.9 | I want to be pleasing to society. |
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