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Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

165. Are You Open to Receiving Love?

Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

Beatrice

Education, Self-improvement

4.83.4K Ratings

🗓️ 1 September 2022

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

We've been talking a lot about vulnerability lately...but what happens if you avoid that kind of intimacy with your partner?
 
For those who lean avoidant in their dating life, it's usually because you're trying to protect yourself. But when you hide behind walls to try and make yourself look better, you cut off the beating heart of connection and love: emotional vulnerability. When you refuse to let someone see the softer parts of you, the messier parts, the "What if they can't handle this?" parts...it doesn't make you safer. It actually closes you off from receiving love, and closes your partner off from trusting you with their more intimate parts, too!
 
But how do you solve this as an avoidant or anxious-avoidant dater? If you have no idea where to begin, don't worry—I'm here today to help you get started.
 
 
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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Beatrice. I'm a self-love embodiment coach, a matcha stand, and the creator of the

0:09.8

self-love over codependency program. This podcast is all about helping you move from shame,

0:16.0

people pleasing, codependency, and low self-esteem and fully into alignment, expansion, and unapologetic

0:25.9

self-love through healing the inner child's spirituality and manifestation. Now, I won't lie in

0:33.7

addition to the last tears and the joy. You may be triggered from time to time when tuning in,

0:40.8

but these triggers will lead to a deep dive into who you really are, all you desire, and the

0:48.7

confidence to demand more out of your life. Welcome to the self-love fix where you get your dose of

0:56.0

self-love tips. Hello, and welcome back to the self-love fix podcast. My name is Beatrice, and I'm

1:07.0

your host, and Happy New Month, Happy September, and Happy Virgo season. I didn't get a chance to say

1:13.2

it on the last episode because last week's episode and the week before that were recordings of

1:19.2

lives I had done. So, now I'm back to do a sit-down chat with you, and this week I want to ask a

1:27.8

question to you. I want to ask how open are you to receiving love? Whether you are single or dating,

1:36.7

I think you are going to find this podcast episode to be a bit of an eye-opener and something to

1:43.3

think about. So, when I'm speaking of how open are you to receiving love? I'm really speaking to

1:49.6

my people who lean avoidant or who lean anxious avoidant because I think back in June, I had an

1:56.0

episode on anxiousness and dating. So, if you have your walls up and dating, what are you protecting?

2:02.6

If you have your walls up in a relationship, what are you protecting? I think, when I think of

2:08.3

dating, a big reason people have their walls up is because of past hurt, past pain, somebody cheating

2:14.8

on you, so maybe you kind of have a heart of stone now where it's like I'm not letting anybody in,

2:21.1

or maybe with your current partner, it's a thing of I'm not going to go there. I'm just not

2:27.1

going to express that emotion. I'm not going to show that. Or maybe with your emotions because

2:31.1

there's a lot of suppression with them, they operate in extremes. That happens a lot when we

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