Hi, I'm Beatrice. I'm a self-love embodiment coach, a matcha stand, and the creator of the

self-love over codependency program. This podcast is all about helping you move from shame,

people pleasing, codependency, and low self-esteem and fully into alignment, expansion, and

unapologetic self-love through healing the inner child's spirituality and manifestation.

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Hello, and welcome to today's live. We're talking about scarcity mindset and the mindset of being pursued.

Hello, welcome in, welcome in. Welcome in, everybody.

If this is your first time catching me live, my name is Beatrice of Beatrice.com, and I'm the

host of the self-love fix podcast, and the creator of the Women of Desire program.

So, I want to talk about a scarcity mindset and the mindset of being pursued because they are

two different mindsets that carry two different energies. And I really want to address

scarcity through the lens of dating. How it often shows up as entitlement.

Oh, it's your first time welcoming. It often shows up as entitlement.

So, what do I mean by this? It looks like maybe you have your walls up, and you don't want to share

any kind of your emotional side with anyone when you go on a date, when you get to know a guy.

It's your giving maybe like monotone I've done this years ago. Giving monotone, giving nothing.

But there's this entitled feeling of you should want to get to know me. You should bust through my walls.

You should do whatever it takes to earn, to earn my trust.

Sometimes that kind of a thing going on, I've had past clients like this where it's like, yeah, I want them to earn my trust

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