164 – Decrease the Hesitation… Men Are Waiting
Porn Free Radio
Matt Dobschuetz
4.8 • 677 Ratings
🗓️ 9 July 2018
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Summary
Years ago, I went on a men's weekend. The leader of the weekend, John, was fond of saying, "Decrease the hesitation gentlemen... men are waiting!"
In the episode, I share the meaning of this phrase and how we can apply it in our recovery.
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| 0:00.0 | Porn Free Radio Episode 164. |
| 0:04.1 | Decreased the hesitation, gentlemen. |
| 0:06.5 | Men are waiting. |
| 0:08.9 | I remember the first time I heard that phrase. |
| 0:11.8 | I was walking down a dimly lit path to a cabin in the woods. |
| 0:17.4 | I had two garbage bags in my hands. |
| 0:20.5 | One garbage bag had a duvet in it, some sheets, a towel, a pillow. |
| 0:26.7 | The other bag had my clothes for the weekend, a Bible and I think a pen. |
| 0:34.4 | And I remember thinking at the time I was thankful that I didn't bring my French press coffee maker. |
| 0:42.0 | Because I had really considered it and left it on the counter of my kitchen before I left for the weekend. |
| 0:47.6 | And I was so happy that I didn't bring it because this wasn't a weekend where you bring a French press coffee maker. |
| 0:55.8 | Now, this was a men's weekend. |
| 0:58.5 | It wasn't a men's retreat. |
| 1:00.1 | So there were no pickup basketball games. |
| 1:03.3 | We didn't stay up and watch guy movies. |
| 1:05.4 | There wasn't an inspirational speaker talking about the Bible and our faith. |
| 1:13.6 | This was put on by a counseling center in town, |
| 1:20.5 | and it was aimed at helping men connect with other men and go deeper in their relationships. |
| 1:28.9 | And it was run by a guy named John. Now, John was an intimidating guy, just even in stature. I think he was about six three or six four. And when he said, decrease the hesitation, gentlemen, men are waiting. |
| 1:36.3 | It got your attention. It got my attention. I remember thinking at the time, am I hesitating? |
| 1:45.4 | Is there something I'm doing right now that's slowing me down? |
| 1:49.4 | Is there something that I'm still thinking about from my week that I'm bringing into this weekend that's getting in the way? |
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