Hello, my beautiful beans and welcome to today's episode. So this episode is all about ultimatums.

This is something that I think is that everyone has a love, hate relationship around the concept

of an ultimatum. I think a lot of people think that automatically an ultimatum is a toxic behavior.

It's a way to control somebody and other people look at ultimatums as setting a boundary.

I'm actually going to break down how to look at ultimatums and how you should use ultimatums

and also how you should interpret when somebody is giving you an ultimatum, okay?

So I did put the call out on my Instagram and I asked, I put a few question boxes and I asked

how many people think ultimatums are a good thing. I also asked when have you ever been given

an ultimatum or when have you given one and what was it? And then lastly, I asked you guys to ask

me questions around the concept of ultimatum. So I'm going to be going through all of that

in this episode. There is so much to talk about. So I'm going to be going through all of that in this

episode. There is so much to talk about. So I'm not going to give you a life update. I'm not going to go

into a brain fact today. We're going straight into the ultimatums. Okay, so firstly, let's figure out

what, let's talk about what it is. So it's a tool that can be used to set a clear boundary,

and it really should just be used for that.

That's how I want you to be looking at an ultimatum

if you're ever thinking about using it.

It means, and if you look it up as far as a dictionary is concerned,

it means a final proposition, a final condition or demand.

It is a warning that unless something changes, action will be

taken. So really think about that when you are considering giving an ultimatum. You have to really mean it

because you're saying this is the final condition. And if these conditions are broken, I'm the one

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