163: What Happens If You Lose It All? A Question from Instagram

The Chris Harder Show

Chris Harder

Entrepreneurship, Business

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🗓️ 27 September 2018

⏱️ 12 minutes

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Summary

There's a misconception out there that only the people who are down and out struggle with their money mindset. I couldn't disagree with that more – very successful people also feel the same fear. In fact, the other day, I received an DM from a young, super successful woman on Instagram. (By the way, I love getting messages and questions from you so feel free to send them my way @chriswharder).

This 24-year-old woman shared how while she was presently super successful, she was terrified of being successful and having it ripped away. See, when she was younger (age 14) her father lost his job and to make ends meet she ended up having to work 5-7 jobs to keep the household afloat. Can anyone relate to this? I know I can. Following are the five tips I shared with this woman to help her work through and manage her fear:

It's better to have something to begin with then to never get it in the first place.
It's good to have a healthy fear so you keep working hard. Don't see it as fear, see it as urgency.
Be present. Live in the now. You're doing great – enjoy it! Stop worrying about something in the future that may or may not happen (hint: it probably won't).
Your abundance that you have right now is because you had the talent to create it. You can't lose that ability to create more of it!

"It's not your current assets that make you rich. It's your ability to create wealth at any time."

Hire a coach to help you keep the right perspective and keep growing. Whether it's one on one or a mastermind, up-level your tribe!

Thanks so much again to this woman (who knows who she is) for sharing your story. You've helped so many others and helped me turn it into an incredible episode in the process. I can't wait to hear who else has a similar story – be sure to share with me on IG!

In This Episode We Talk about:

Money mindset
One listener's fear of losing it all
Chris' five tips to move through fear

Resources:

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome everybody this is for the love of money where we are making you
0:08.6	unapologetic about your pursuit of success by sharing the tools, tips, and stories of those who have already made it.
0:16.5	My name is Chris Harder, and each week I will bring you incredible guests
0:21.2	in order to prove that when good people make good money they do great things.
0:32.3	Hey everyone welcome back to another mini episode of for the love of money
0:35.6	episodes that I like to call my two cents and today I'm actually going to
0:39.9	share a really cool DM question that I got on Instagram. You see I receive a lot of
0:45.3	questions on money mindset and entrepreneurship and my DMs on Instagram and by the way I
0:49.7	love getting them so go follow me at Chris W Harder on Instagram go ahead and shoot me a
0:55.3	DM I always commit to answering all of them anyhow a lot of these questions that I get in
1:01.8	my d'ams they inspire me to do episodes like this.
1:04.8	And so that's what I'm actually going to do my
1:06.7	episode around today because it's a question that I think applies
1:09.7	to an awful lot of you.
1:12.2	So we're going to get into that in a second before we do. Here is a
1:16.2	heads up. This is the very last day and I don't even know when you're going to listen to this episode.
1:20.7	But as of Thursday, when this episode comes out, it is the very last day
1:27.0	to enroll in our epic life course called Alined.
1:31.7	Listen, my wife and I paired together on this thing is the first
1:35.6	and only time we ever have. She absolutely rolls up her sleeves in this nine
1:41.2	week course and teaches you how to have better
1:43.7	relationships and a better tribe. I roll up my sleeves and I teach you how to have a
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