Thanks for taking the kids solo and training a new puppy. I really really appreciate it and I

notice all that you do and all that you're taking on. So is it more yes? Could I say that in

about 15 seconds also yes? Did I have so much more meaning because it included the visible,

the valued, and the specificity? Also yes. So it's not always easy to do and it doesn't mean that

every single time that you say something nice to somebody has to include all those pieces,

but you sure notice it and remember it a lot more when it does have those little extra add-ons.

I'm Amy and I'm Abby and as women we are constantly comparing ourselves to others,

but your life isn't supposed to look like hers. Being your best self means standing firm in your

decisions and always being willing to grow with a purpose. We get vulnerable and real with an

honest look into the challenges and triumphs we all face. Every woman listening is an opportunity

to choose what life looks like for herself.

In these episodes we really like to talk about how we're implementing some of the things that

the experts on our podcasts tell us. So we are going to dive into Dr. Morgan Cutlips' episode

and talk about a few things that we've tried in our own relationships and what is working and what

is maybe not working. Abby and I are coming to you from a very interesting day of having to pick

kids up from school and getting into little tiffs with our partners and just to normalize. We were

talking about how in this season of life with all of the demands, it can just lead to some moments where

you wish you would have acted different or you wish your partner would have acted different and

that's just the truth of the matter with how much stuff that people have going on.

So let's dive into one of the parts about Morgan's episode that I really liked.

It was when we were talking about using the phrase, the story I'm telling myself is.

And so in that episode and then on Instagram I shared the now infamous story about drew not unpacking

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