So I want to go back that one, the first thought used, the first point you made, which was,

I'm afraid that if I tell somebody what's going on in the inside of me, they'll confirm

or if it more like you said, they'll experience the same way that I feel about myself.

So they're going to look at me as dirty or shameful or broken.

So the fear isn't, they're going to use it against me as much as they're going to see

me in this film.

It could be that too, depending on the person to hang on the way they use it.

I'm going to tell you a story.

The first times we brought love after marriage to another country, we were, first lesson

is nothing hidden.

Living, and I talk about the whole concept of truth from the Bible and not hiding, if I'm,

if I don't share something with Laurie that's important to her and I know it is, I'm

not walking in the truth.

I haven't lied to her, but I'm not walking in the truth.

Just withholding important information to our relationship is not working in the truth.

So I teach the lesson on nothing hidden and talk about why we should take the risk even

when it's hard to be truthful in love.

At the end, the pastor said he was translating for us and he said, he goes, whoa, people

here in this country aren't like that.

We're private people.

We don't share dirty laundry, that kind of thing.

And I said, well, you know what?

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