162: How to Level Up So Fast It Scares People
BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko
Margarita Nazarenko
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🗓️ 26 April 2026
⏱️ 27 minutes
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If you feel like you're doing everything right but still not moving, this episode is for you.
In this episode I walk you through the seven things that are quietly keeping you stuck, and why the women who level up fast aren't doing more than you, they've just stopped doing these specific things without even realising it.
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Topics this episode covers: how to level up your life fast, how to stop being stuck, why you self sabotage, nervous system and personal growth, neuroception explained, how to stop playing it safe, how to stop waiting to feel ready, how to build confidence, confidence before action, behavioural activation, how to stop people pleasing, how to stop being addicted to situationships, dopamine and situationships, why you're attracted to unavailable people, why you lose interest in stable relationships, how to stop outsourcing your identity, social mirroring, how to know what you want, how to stop shapeshifting around people, self concept and success, cognitive consistency, how to stop self sabotaging, how to change your self concept, identity shift, how to make a decision, how to stop waiting for a sign, decision fatigue, how to trust yourself, how to stop over preparing, how to stop people pleasing, how to get your standards back, how to stop being low maintenance, how to stop being easy going, how to level up fast, personal growth for women, mindset shift for women, how to become her, feminine energy, how to be unbothered, unbothered woman, personal development for women, life transformation 2026, feminine energy 2026, how to stop waiting, how to take action, how to stop overthinking, how to stop being comfortable in struggle.
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| 0:00.0 | Today we're going to level up so fast that it's |
| 0:11.0 | so fast that it scares people. |
| 0:14.0 | Dan, are you okay? |
| 0:15.0 | Yeah, good. |
| 0:16.0 | There was a phase in my life where I was definitely stuck, |
| 0:20.0 | not stuck in terms of not knowing what to do or where I |
| 0:23.0 | want to be or where I want to go. But I feel like there's a breakthrough in a ceiling for each person |
| 0:28.0 | where they're trying to be the person they want to be and they don't know why it's not working |
| 0:32.8 | and they see everybody doing the thing. I was just talking today with people in my team about |
| 0:37.4 | the fact that I was doing |
| 0:39.0 | Instagram and I was doing social media for a while trying to be like the fashion girlie, this person, the other person. |
| 0:45.8 | And then there's breakthroughs that really change and they're at this deep psychological level of change where it changes the fiber of you and then suddenly things work. |
| 0:58.3 | I think what people call it is actually manifesting, but it's not manifesting. |
| 1:02.0 | It is breakthroughs that you need to have in order to come out the other side. |
| 1:06.0 | And no matter how much hard work you do, because that's what I used to think. |
| 1:08.9 | I used to be like, right, so if I post consistently, if I do this one, if I do that one, then I'll do all of this. |
| 1:14.3 | No, no, no, no. It needs to be at a base level where you change, right? |
| 1:20.3 | So I'm going to do a seven-point system in this. I think I've written seven points in my trusty |
| 1:24.3 | phone here of things that I realized really changed the trajectory of |
| 1:30.2 | how I change. And to give you a background story, I written two books at the same time as having |
| 1:36.7 | two kids, at the same time as having a top 25 podcast, at the same time as having, I just |
| 1:42.4 | discussed it with people on my team. What was it, 38 million |
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