161 - The Unlikely Whistleblower with Tamara Pietzke
Gender: A Wider Lens
Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley
4.6 • 961 Ratings
🗓️ 26 April 2024
⏱️ 61 minutes
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Summary
If you work in pediatric gender medicine and have concerns about the safety of practice, you are not alone. Contact the LGBT Courage Coalition for guidance and support (including finding legal counsel and connecting you with media contacts).
Stella and Sasha welcome whistleblower, Tamara Pietzke for an important conversation highlighting the valuable role that clinicians who are able to speak openly play in revealing insights from ‘behind the gender affirming care curtain’.
Tamara’s story highlights the challenges and ethical dilemmas involved in providing gender-affirming care to children and the difficulties whistleblowers are facing in speaking out against harmful practices and the lack of informed consent.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi. Hello Sasha, how's it going? I'm fine Stella, how are you? I'm good, I'm good. This was a lovely episode, a very kind of inspiring episode. |
| 0:12.0 | Yeah, we talked to Tamara Pittsky, who we kind of think about as an unlikely whistleblower, as you'll hear her in the episode. |
| 0:20.0 | She said, my friends laughed when they discovered that I was in this position because they thought I was the least likely person to become a whistleblower and frankly Tamara didn't even know the term whistleblower until somebody used it about her. |
| 0:34.2 | So she is, as you'll hear, she's very soft spoken, |
| 0:38.8 | she's thoughtful, she's very sweet, |
| 0:41.6 | and when she was working at this clinic called multi-care |
| 0:45.5 | She started seeing things that really concerned her around very complicated young people with serious trauma, |
| 0:52.8 | serious abuse in their background, |
| 0:55.3 | with very dehumanizing identities. |
| 0:58.6 | We're not just talking about your typical kind of, |
| 1:01.2 | I'm a trans guy and I'm proud kind of situation. We're talking |
| 1:04.4 | about really complicated bizarre identities like animal identities and things |
| 1:08.6 | like that and when she spoke up about her concerns, |
| 1:13.6 | she was really shut down at every kind of step of the way |
| 1:16.8 | by colleagues, by managers, higher-ups. |
| 1:20.0 | And so, you know, in launched her experience of trying to speak out and, quote, blow the whistle. |
| 1:27.1 | And it was lovely to speak with her today. |
| 1:29.2 | Yeah, I think a key part of the of the Tamarpizki's story is the fact that she is a gentle, |
| 1:36.8 | soft-spoken, moderate person who has no need, not standing on any soapbox, no major need to come on |
| 1:47.2 | podcast or radios to give her opinions, doesn't actually have strong opinions I'd, often in life. |
| 1:54.8 | If you follow me, one of life's moderates in every aspect of the word. |
| 2:00.1 | And I think that speaks to what insanity is arguably going on, that she could see that this is not right, that they are extremists, and extremists had taken over the workplace, and her moderate opinion she actually had to be |
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