She said if you spend one dollar without talking me about it, that's it.

You've hidden 77,000 and you come to me now because it had happened three times.

I just thought maybe I'm throwing good money after bad.

I felt like I made it too easy.

And so I'm afraid that it could happen again. I'm afraid to trust him with the money.

If you had to describe how you think she feels right now what would you say?

Exactly how she said absolutely betrayed. This is my previous life.

This is what I thought I was getting away from.

I know what it's like not to trust somebody and it's extremely hard to get that back

and we have less time to earn trust back.

So where'd the money go?

That's what I want to know.

Me too. Today I get the chance to speak to Dana and Jim. They're both 58 years old, both nearing

retirement and they're worried if they will have enough. This is the second marriage for both of them.

One of the reasons I love this podcast is I get to share stories from people in all

different parts of life. Young, old, millionaires, people with $200,000 of debt, gay, straight, immigrants, people

who live all over the world. My hope is to show you how similar we all are when it comes to money.

And I also hope that you will listen to these couples and apply their lessons to your own life.

For example, when I speak to older couples, they're giving us the gift of a crystal ball

into our own future so that we can learn from their journey and decide which lessons we want to apply.

Now for Dana and Jim, there's something shocking that happened

that broke their financial trust and they realized it as they were filling out

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