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ADHD reWired

160 | Dear ADHD

ADHD reWired

Eric Tivers, LCSW, ADHD-CCSP

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.8937 Ratings

🗓️ 21 March 2017

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

This Week's Episode: Nicole joins me on this episode of ADHD reWired. Nicole is a mom of two with a background in sales. Nicole has been a member of our most recent ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability Group. In this discussion, Nicole shares her ADHD story with us. She has an entertaining story of how she first realized she has ADHD. Nicole shares a lot with us in the conversation. You will hear how she views the role that ADHD plays in her life, she reads a letter she wrote to her ADHD, and she describes the changes she is experiencing in her life now because of her involvement in the ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability Group. Connect with Nicole Email: plymouthmn7@gmail.com You'll Learn: [06:09] - Nicole describes her background and her history with ADHD. She was not diagnosed until she was a senior in college. She shares how this discovery and diagnosis came about. [09:12] - Nicole talks about some of the resources she found (this podcast included) and how she started to understand the science of ADHD. [16:30] - Nicole shares how she views the role ADHD plays in her life. I describe a post-it note that Nicole has designed that symbolizes everything. [21:38] - We recently did a writing exercise in the group. I asked members to write a letter that starts "Dear ADHD," and she shares her letter with us. [24:24] - Nicole explains why she joined the ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability Group. [31:17] - Nicole shares some of her transformation that was brought on by being part of the group. [33:27] - Nicole believed that hyperfocus was one of her greatest strengths. We discuss the side effects that can make hyperfocus a weakness. [43:36] - Nicole talks about how she benefitted from mindfulness meditation. [46:20] - Nicole texted me that she needed to reschedule our appointment, but then changed her mind. We talk about pushing through perfectionism and feelings of not being in the right mental place for events to take place. [50:50] - Holding onto strengths and successes is important because there will be times of weakness that you use those to push through. [51:58] - Nicole lists some of the successes she's experienced because of the ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability Group. This has helped her grow in ways she would have never expected. [56:52] - Nicole talks about using paper and Evernote to organize. [1:01:53] - If you are newly diagnosed with ADHD and are planning on having children or have children that are young, Nicole has a message for you. Your Resources: More Attention, Less Deficit - Ari Tuckman Podcast Use my Audible.com affiliate link for your favorite titles: http://www.audibletrial.com/ADHDreWired ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability Group! Our Spring 2017 sessions are April 24th through June 30th. Registration is March 27th through April 4th. If you reserve your spot now on a Tuesday or Thursday before March 24th, mention the promo code "reWired 100" to get $100 off registration. Go to http://coachingrewired.com and schedule a call if you want to join. Planning Workshops Do you feel like consistency is a weakness of yours? I would like to show you the effective planning strategies I have used to be incredibly consistent with this podcast. Join me for two free planning workshops. The first session will be on Monday, March 27th. We will be covering yearly and quarterly planning in that first session. The second session covers planning your day, week, and month. This session is on Wednesday, March 29th. Registration is free, but space is limited. Register at EricTivers.com/events. Productivity Q&A Get your ADHD questions answered live! These Q&A sessions take place on the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 12:30pm. Go to http://erictivers.com/events. ADHD Women's Palooza If you missed the ADHD Women's Palooza, you can purchase all 36 sessions (including mine) for only $197! Check it out here: http://www.erictivers.com/palooza Want to be a guest? Hey! What about you? Do you have a story? Are you a Coach? Are you an ADHD Clinician? If you answered yes to any of these questions and you'd like to be a guest, schedule a pre-interview call here.

Transcript

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0:00.0

And it was one of the most horrible experiences of my adult life as a person who was diagnosed with

0:07.3

AIDI because here I was finally taking some steps, this evolution of who I was and she made me feel scared that I was going to be like a

0:18.2

number or a statistic of the many people that never, I think the expression she used was like,

0:25.0

many people with AEDD are like rockets.

0:28.0

They have all this fuel and all this possibility in them,

0:31.0

but it never gets ignited and they never even take off and they just sit on the ground. ADHD rewired episode 160.

0:45.6

This is the show designed for those of us

0:48.9

with really good intentions,

0:50.6

but a slightly wandering attention.

0:53.0

My name is Eric Tivers.

0:55.0

I'm a licensed clinical social worker, coach, and speaker.

0:58.0

The website is ADHD rewired.com.

1:02.0

We know that starting is the hardest part so let's get started but first let me tell you about this

1:11.2

It's really helping in a group that has other people who have ADHD in it.

1:16.0

The ADHD, rewired coaching and accountability group.

1:20.0

In the group, you're just going to hear about other people struggling in the ways that I struggle has really helped me have compassion for myself in a way that being around people who don't struggle in those same ways haven't and then that makes it less like I'm the screw up.

1:36.1

You know like I'm not in a setting where it's like I'm the one who should be voted off the island.

1:40.8

I'm Sarah I'm a student studying psychology. I joined the group

1:45.8

originally because I struggle with productivity. I've always struggled with

1:49.4

productivity and getting done the things that I care about. I joined the group as one of many

1:54.0

many things I've tried to do to turn that around. The biggest thing for me about

1:58.1

the group that's had an impact is the regularity of it. It's 10 weeks of meeting three times a week and normally I'm a

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