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🗓️ 10 April 2020
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What is the secret that makes a man look into a woman’s eyes and think, “She is the one for me?” It isn’t her looks. It isn’t her masters degree in literature. It isn’t the fact that she had the same favorite pizza place in the city (though that helped…).
No, the reason he fell hard for this woman was because of something no one talks about… Maybe it’s happened to you before: You knew you kind of liked a guy, but then he did one special move that made your heart do a triple back flip – now you are crazy about him. How does this happen??
It’s not about fancy tricks, it’s about understanding this secret of deep, lasting attraction...
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0:00.0 | Oh my lord, wouldn't you know it? It's time for another episode of the Love Life podcast |
0:28.6 | with me, your proud host, Stephen Hussey. And it is very sunny here in Mary Old England. The |
0:38.2 | grass is green, the flowers are blooming and spring is finally upon us. And what a time it is for |
0:47.0 | spring to break. I hope wherever you're knocking around in the world, you're well. And what are we doing |
0:55.0 | here today? Well, today we are talking about the big subject of attraction. What causes it? What |
1:04.5 | keeps it? How do you sustain it? I think that attraction is something that is often oversimplified. We |
1:11.4 | like to think it's just about looks, it's just about visual chemistry or it's flirting. And that's |
1:19.0 | what attraction is and that's what sparks it. And of course that is often the beginning. That's often |
1:25.6 | the opening move, so to speak, is I like to look at that person. I like the way they smile. I like |
1:32.2 | their eyes. They have an energy that I find really attractive. You know, you have an animal response |
1:39.3 | to certain people. And that's what chemistry is. But there's also a part of attraction that is |
1:45.0 | really underrated. And that part is the subtle, tiny miniature. There I say micro behaviors |
1:55.8 | that fly under the radar, but they are the click. The moment where our brain flashes with something |
2:02.3 | that says, well, this person is unlike anyone I've ever met. This person is special. I want to be |
2:09.1 | around this person more. I've never met anyone with this quality. Those are the secret, the secret |
2:16.6 | powerful gems that so often people don't realize are sparking deep attraction in other people. And |
2:24.6 | to make this not abstract to give you some actual practical examples, I'm going to flick us over |
2:30.9 | to my dear and wise brother Matthew Hussey who talks about this subject in the clip coming up. |
2:38.9 | Check it out. Have you ever felt like you weren't pretty enough for the person you want? Or that |
2:44.7 | the person you want is so desirable and so attractive that they have so many options why would they |
2:51.1 | choose you? I recently asked my fast track members, what was a moment with a guy where you realized |
2:57.4 | you were deeply attracted to him? Here's what they said. A mother was pushing her stroller across the |
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