157. Let's Talk About Libido
Marriage and Martinis
Adam Silverstein
4.8 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 15 February 2021
⏱️ 62 minutes
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Summary
One of the most common messages Danielle and Adam receive from listeners is that they and their partner mismatched libidos. Truthfully, 80% of couples experience one partner having a higher libido than the other. We all think that we're the only ones struggling with this, and we tend to take it personally when our partner isn't in the mood as often (or ever). But there are so many misconceptions and myths surrounding sex drives and compatibility. This episode breaks down some of those misconceptions, and sheds light on the issues in Danielle and Adam's own marriage that have led to little or no sex over extended periods of time.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey guys, welcome to America Martinez. I am Adam, aka the Romantic Man. |
| 0:29.9 | For Valentine's Day, and here is Danielle. Hi, I'm Romantic. You are Romantic. |
| 0:36.6 | Right. Didn't I prove me some romance today? Did prove some romance. What was yesterday? |
| 0:42.0 | I don't know. I did stuff. I cleaned or something. That's romantic. Okay. Yeah, you |
| 0:48.5 | did. You surprised me this morning. I was very surprised. You got me. I've been |
| 0:54.0 | wanting an Apple Watch for a really long time. And you surprised me when this |
| 0:59.2 | morning and you surprised me with the Pride Band, the Rainbow Band, which is exactly |
| 1:04.1 | the band I would have chosen had I gone and bought it myself. I think I did it all right, |
| 1:08.3 | except for the fact I knew I knew that you wanted that Pride Band, but I also knew that you |
| 1:16.0 | might want that rose gold, but they don't go together. So I bought them separately so you |
| 1:20.6 | can at least return one of the other and replace it. So I tried. You did awesome. You |
| 1:26.6 | really did. And then you made me a Valentine's Day Mimosa with a heart-shaped strawberry. |
| 1:32.8 | Yep. Wow. I did. And my gift, you know, is not something that you can see, but you can feel it. |
| 1:42.5 | I have filled this home with love. You have? I did not think you were going to give me a |
| 1:47.7 | present. I thought you were going to give me a present. I would have gotten you something, |
| 1:53.0 | but I just figured you don't want me to spend any money. Yes. You're not spending money as my |
| 1:58.4 | gift. That's what I figure. But then you spent it on me. So now I feel bad. And I believe |
| 2:04.3 | all three kids asked what you got me for Valentine's Day. Yeah. Well, they also asked what I got |
| 2:10.0 | them for Valentine's Day. Really? Like you're eating it and drinking it this morning. |
| 2:17.0 | I got you that milk and those waffles. Right. Okay. I'll put a bow on it next time. |
| 2:23.8 | Well, make it red or something. Okay. They won't eat it then. They'll be like, it's red. |
| 2:28.8 | I don't want it. Doesn't look like how we usually have it. Okay. So we are talking about |
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