157-Encourage Your Wife's Sexuality (How A Husband Can Help His Wife Be More Into Sex) Part 2
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 12 September 2017
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
This is Part 2 of my advice for men who want their wives to enjoy sex more. Though you may feel so hurt that your wife doesn't desire and/or meet your intimacy with joy the way you crave, there is a lot going on for her too.
"Hurt people hurt people". In this podcast, I hope to shed light on things both of you may be going through. And not even realize that you (men) are undermining the very intimacy you seek to encourage.
I hope to help you understand the ways a wife desires to be loved in life and how that directly relates to her experience intimately with you.
Specifically discussed:
-Why she thinks you only want her for sex (and what you can do to change that)
-How you can communicate a man's need for sex in a way that will reach her (rather than repel her)
-Specific things you can do in physical intimacy that will allow her to enjoy intimacy to much greater degree, thus desiring it more
For wives, I want you to know...
My goal for your physical intimacy is that it would get to a level and place to would support your life, but NOT be the focus of it. I want you to be able to relax into the joy of amazing intimacy so it would fuel the pursuits of God's heart. There is much more than sex, it shouldn't be the focus; if you're married, it should support the focus.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey there, it's Bella. I just wanted to start by saying a note on part one and part two of encouraging your wife's sexuality. I went back and listened and I wanted to just kind of apologize. I feel like my tone may have been disrespectful to what you are going through as a husband. And I certainly think there are nuggets of helpful |
| 0:24.6 | advice in here, but I think my overall kind of presentation isn't what I wish it had been. So I hope |
| 0:32.1 | you'll have grace with me. I give quite a lot more context, I guess, and maybe more humility in the way I present my ideas |
| 0:42.9 | in kind of an updated revision that I'm calling 156 slash 157 update of encourage your wife's sexuality. So you can find that episode on either the website |
| 0:59.3 | or in the podcast app. Again, it's just 156 slash 157. So, you know, because this is part two, |
| 1:07.9 | so this is 157. Like I said, if this is your first time listening to this |
| 1:13.6 | part two of the podcast, feel free. I think there's very valid and important insights that you can |
| 1:21.0 | absolutely apply. And I think it would be great for you to listen, but just understand that I think my tone is probably not |
| 1:31.1 | what I wish it had been. So just wanted to have that note. Thanks for listening in. God bless. |
| 1:37.9 | Talk to you later. Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and inspiring wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage. |
| 1:52.5 | Here's your host, Bella Rose. |
| 1:56.7 | Hello and welcome. |
| 1:58.4 | Thank you for joining me. |
| 2:00.2 | I'm just imagining maybe where you are if you're out walking your dog or you're sipping a cup of coffee or maybe you're on your commute to work. Wherever you are, I'm so grateful that you have allowed me into your ears. I hope that today is going to be really helpful for you, for your marriage, |
| 2:18.7 | for your perspectives on life. You know, just talking to my husband a couple of minutes ago about |
| 2:25.4 | this podcast, it's just really so wonderful. And one thing that came out of that is the idea |
| 2:33.9 | that ultimately we don't want sex to be the focus of our marriage. |
| 2:42.5 | What we want is that it to be a support to your life and not the focus of your life. |
| 2:51.0 | And that's kind of the ultimate aim, is that sex would be a support, because that's what |
| 2:56.8 | I think God intended it to be. |
| 2:59.4 | When he made Adam and Eve, I think that was the purpose, that sex would be a wonderful |
| 3:04.6 | pleasure and joy and intimacy, but it wasn't to detract from what God |
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