156-Encourage Your Wife's Sexuality (How A Husband Can Help His Wife Be More Into Sex) Part 1
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 5 September 2017
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
(Part 1) You may want more sex. You may want her to want you more. You may want her to care more about your drive. Maybe all of the above and a whole lot more...
Well, the biggest barrier women face is insecurity. An insecure wife can't take off her clothes, can't seduce, can't enjoy physical intimacy. But isn't that her problem? Isn't that something she needs to go do, with the guidance of her husband? NO! Please stop pushing/teaching/correcting/criticizing... your wife on sexual things.
It is not helping it is hurting---your cause AND your wife. So today's episode is all about getting you dear husband, to understand 1) your wife's mind 2) her biggest barrier to love making 3) what you can do about it
Why did I have to make this episode? I hear far more from husbands than I do from wives. And it's time I gave these hurting husbands some help. Its not that they don't care about their wives and which is why they treat them this way. Not in the least. It's that they don't feel loved by their wives through sex and they don't know what to do about it. Here's some guidance that I believe will turn things around in your marriage.
This is part 1 in a 2 part series. Second part coming out next week.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey there, it's Bella. I just wanted to start by saying a note on part one and part two of encouraging your wife's sexuality. I went back and listened and I wanted to just kind of apologize. I feel like my tone may have been disrespectful to what you are going through as a husband and I certainly think there are nuggets of |
| 0:23.7 | helpful advice in here but I think my overall kind of presentation isn't what I wish it had been |
| 0:31.5 | so I hope you'll have grace with me I give quite a lot more context guess, and maybe more humility in the way I present my ideas |
| 0:43.1 | in kind of an updated revision that I'm calling 156 slash 157 update of encourage your wife's sexuality. So you can find that episode on either the website |
| 0:59.4 | or in the podcast app. Again, it's just 156 slash 157. Just wanted to have that note. Thanks for |
| 1:07.7 | listening in. God bless. Talk to you later. Welcome to the Delight |
| 1:14.4 | Your Marriage Podcast. This show where you hear from amazing and inspiring wives sharing |
| 1:20.1 | their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage. Here's your host, Bella Rose. |
| 1:33.5 | Hi there and welcome. This is Bella Rose. I'm really glad that you're here. If this is your first time, I will let you know that we have had the summer off. So I hope that |
| 1:40.1 | you have had a chance to really relax and enjoy the summer with your family, with your loved |
| 1:45.5 | ones, had a chance to rest and rejuvenate. I really have. We had a great time. My husband and I |
| 1:52.6 | and my kids and we went, well, we mostly stuck around our house. We have a great area that we love, the park, and we do a rest day |
| 2:04.0 | every week, which meant we just could relax and really enjoy what God has given us, which I think |
| 2:10.4 | is so important in life today when we act like productivity is godliness. And it's just not. |
| 2:17.4 | So today I wanted to talk about |
| 2:21.1 | something really important. You know, I've done this podcast for two and a half years now. |
| 2:26.3 | And the people that reach out to me the most are frustrated husbands. And I say frustrated, but really underneath all that anger and |
| 2:38.9 | frustration is really, they're hurt. They're hurt that their wives are disinterested in sex, |
| 2:44.5 | or that the wives are resentful, or they just won't have sex with them, won't enjoy the act of lovemaking with their |
| 2:53.3 | husbands. And so I've really hesitated to give specific advice to husbands because I am a woman |
| 3:00.6 | and I think it's, you know, most appropriate for me to be speaking to wives about sexuality because that's where I'm coming from and it's |
| 3:10.2 | easiest for me to speak on that. However, I've just encountered so many husbands that reach out to me |
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