155. Re-parenting, Gentle Parenting with Leslie of Latinx Parenting

Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

Beatrice

Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 3.4K Ratings

🗓️ 12 May 2022

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Chances are you've likely heard about the new trend in parenting- gentle parenting. While it may sound permissive or ineffective, if you really look into it, it's the natural response to the inherent violence that has been culturally accepted in previous generations.

In the latest episode of The Self-Love Fix Podcast I have a chance to talk with Leslie of LatinX parenting and go over:

Why violence is culturally accepted in parenting
The tenants of gentle parenting
Respect > fear

Blind obedience through fear is not helping our children learn how to process difficult emotions, and it is a breeding ground for future emotional issues and resentments. It can be hard to find other ways when we were most likely brought up by parents who never modeled apologizing for the sake of repair or connection- the emphasis was on obedience at all costs. Our parents wanted to win, no matter how it ultimately affected us as people, and our relationship with them.

We don't need to be perfect all the time to raise thoughtful and compassionate children; we simply have to always try and honor the person they are becoming while understanding that when we "lose it", it's actually a wonderful opportunity to show them accountability.

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0:00.0	Discipline is non-violence and non-violence is very much about being disciplined with this practice.
0:06.6	So the discipline has to start with ourselves as well.
0:09.0	And what we want to incorporate into our lives and model for our children in terms of the way that we can be.
0:15.3	A lot of times when we're yelling, our children start yelling back and then yell back.
0:21.1	And then, I mean, it's just chaos.
0:23.2	And it's like, how do I make sure that I am in a state?
0:26.4	And this is where the parenting work comes in.
0:28.2	Because it's like, how do I make sure that I'm in a state that feels safe, that feels secure, that feels grounded,
0:33.8	and that feels able to be in alignment with my parenting values?
0:40.8	Hi, I'm Beatrice.
0:42.5	I'm a self-love embodiment coach, a match of stand, and the creator of the self-love over-codependency program.
0:49.8	This podcast is all about helping you move from shame, people pleasing,
0:54.6	codependency, and low self-esteem, and fully into alignment, expansion, and unapologetic self-love
1:04.4	through healing the inner child's spirituality and manifestation.
1:09.6	Now, I won't lie in addition to the last tears and the joy.
1:15.1	You may be triggered from time to time when tuning in, but these triggers will lead to a deep dive into who you really are,
1:24.6	all you desire, and the confidence to demand more out of your life.
1:30.1	Welcome to the self-love fix, where you get your dose of self-love tips.
1:34.6	Hello, and welcome back to the self-love fix podcast.
1:43.8	My name is Beatrice, and I'm your host, and this week we have a very special guest.
1:49.4	You may know her. Her name is Leslie Priscilla, also known as Latinx Parenting over on Instagram.
1:57.7	Leslie Priscilla is a first-generation non-black Chicana with Raramuri lineage.
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