154. The F The Fairytale One ft. Damona Hoffman
Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast
Ali Jackson
3.9 • 712 Ratings
🗓️ 29 January 2024
⏱️ 94 minutes
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Summary
Ali & Erica welcome an OG of dating advice to the pod this week - Damona Hoffman, author of the new book “F The Fairytale” and host of the Dates & Mates podcast. We get into topics such as Damona’s best tips for dating mindset, how the online dating landscape has changed in her 15 years of coaching, and how race has played a role in her own dating life (and Ali weighs in too!).
In Updates, Erica has a date that was set up by a listener - but will the long distance be too much? Meanwhile, Ali has a few giddy moments after her second date with Dr. Laundry (previously Pie Guy).
Where to find Damona: On Instagram @damonahoffman, at www.damonahoffman.com
Timestamps: Damona joins us at around minute 35.
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| 0:00.0 | He texted me saying he didn't fill the spark, and thus we didn't go out again. |
| 0:03.6 | And that's why you should send him a copy of F the fairy tale. |
| 0:07.7 | Well, I have a second one since I went to that event of yours. |
| 0:11.4 | So maybe I'll just, I'll just slide it in there. |
| 0:14.5 | Totally understand. Here you go. |
| 0:16.0 | This is what DeMona Hoffman says about the spark. |
| 0:17.6 | Thank you. how often says about this break welcome back welcome back listeners to finding mr height the |
| 0:31.4 | podcast i am your co-host erika spira and i'm alley jackson and we are fresh off our NYC live show. And I am still on cloud |
| 0:41.8 | nine. I am flying high. You are wearing the short that I was wearing at the live show, one of our |
| 0:47.5 | new pieces of merch that maybe by the time this goes live, I will have figured out how to get an e-commerce |
| 0:53.7 | site up and running. Yes, we have some merch left over from the live show. So if you saw our cute little new shirts and sweatshirts, they're going to be available for you guys if you'd like to get one. So yes. But shout out to the crowd that came out. You guys helped make the show so fun. |
| 1:12.4 | And I was so excited to see everyone, meet everyone. |
| 1:14.9 | Like, my energy is still like a 10 just from Saturday. |
| 1:19.0 | I was, I literally was saying at the after party, to me that was my favorite part. |
| 1:23.4 | Obviously, I loved being on stage with you and like interacting with the crowd. |
| 1:26.4 | But like getting to talk one on one or like in small groups with so many listeners afterwards, I said to a lot of people, my adrenaline is at 11. |
| 1:34.0 | Like I was just like, this is incredible. The vibe is amazing. There were people at the show that had met at the previous show and came to this one together, people who didn't know each other |
| 1:45.0 | before that were hanging out. I just, I could gush forever. It was amazing. Yeah. If you're one of those |
| 1:49.9 | people that have emailed us being like, how do I make friends as an adult? Well, you listen to this |
| 1:54.0 | podcast. Come to a live podcast. All right. We're introducing everybody to everybody. Also, there are a few |
| 1:59.3 | girls that brought some single guys. Brilliant. They were like, I have some guy friends like, where can I meet women? They're like, come to this podcast. It's going to have a bunch of women in the crowd. I ended up having a couple guy friends who came, not as many as I messaged about it, where I kept, especially like, I'm like, all right, you know, I think a lot of them misunderstood what the show was going to be. Like a lot of them thought that it was a panel discussion. No, no, no, no, no. It's much more fun. It's fun. But yeah, I'm like, you're trying to meet women. You know a nice good guy? Bring them to the show. Or honestly, come alone. You're going to meet people. All right. That's what I love about everyone |
| 2:35.0 | that comes to these. It's like they're out. They want to socialize. They want to meet everybody. It was great. It was so great. And I just want to thank everyone again for coming. And if you're in DC, we're also coming to DC. We're going to do a whole new show. And it's different every time. So you got to come out. |
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