Hey guys, I'd like to talk to you today, which is going to be one of those subjects where you're going to have to take a look at yourself to see if there's something that you need to change within yourself

before we get on this rampage of complaining about other people.

And I'm going to first of all have a confession here right now

of my own experience of this.

You see, I have a great friend, my best friend, and I remember

it must have been about four or five years ago now, and it got to a point where he was starting

to irritate me. Now I love this guy, he's, we've been best friends for such a long time,

but it was one of those situations where we would, would come to meet each other like once

twice a week and kind of catch up and share and just generally hang out and have fun. But it got

to the point where I would say, um, though in fact, we'd kind of greet each other and he would say, hey, Joseph, how's your day been?

And I'll just about to say how my day's been and suddenly go, because my day was X, Y, Z and he'll just keep

going, going, going, and going. So it's almost like asking a question, but then talking about himself.

So asking a question to me, and then suddenly talking about his own day.

And it felt just very uncomfortable for me.

It just felt like, hey, what about me here?

I mean, you ask me a question and then you're going on elsewhere.

And as I began to kind of get a little bit of irritation about this I

thought well let's take this behavior as us as well the thing which is

really irritating me right now as I think about this behavior what's

really happening here and I began to consider and look within myself as to why I

dislike this this behavior I mean it's probably understandable as to why I

may dislike it but what I really realize is which is the thing which we've got to

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