Hey there, Bella here. Thanks for joining. So for a couple of months, I've been reading some excerpts from my book, Delight Your Husband. In that book, I take a wife by the hand. We talk about some of the most difficult things that people never talk about with sex.

Your fears, your insecurities, the lies that the world has told you about, what's sexy,

and the way you should be, and the way you feel like you totally are not.

And so we walk through the process of understanding your own heart,

how to be confident.

We walk through what your husband really feels about sex in his mind,

how he feels about your body,

what it is in God's view about the whole sex question and what's okay and what's not and how to have freedom in it all. And so the kind

of conclusion of the book is me going through and walking a wife by the hand through practicalities.

Some really practical items that, honestly, there's just not Christian books about.

There's just not things that we can understand our husband's climax.

Like, what are the stages to his orgasm?

Those kinds of things are not gone into deep enough, and so that's what my book does, is go into in-depth how to understand your husband's orgasm,

and specifically how as a wife you can treat him to the pleasures of oral sex.

And I specifically call it Penny because I like that word better than all the other words

that the society uses for it.

But that's what my book kind of culminates with all this information, with all this insight,

with all the ways that you have been learning to enjoy your own body in sex and be confident

and learn to seduce and learn to enjoy the sex act and learn to desire him.

So that's all to say that I'd like that to kind of inform this section of the book that I'm about to read.

So the section says the heading is,

Great Oral Starts in His Mind. So the subheading is what is sexy.

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