The Let's move on to round number three.

Okay, I think round number three is going to be the money shot because I was in LA with you and you mess me up in a good way.

Okay? You said that you don't compromise in the pursuit of your personal mission.

My question is how do you, Chris Doe, go about doing that, not compromising,

while also satisfying other commitments in areas of your life like wifey, children, family, fans, the marketplace,

how can you, without one suffering because of your personal mission? Because we have people out there with families and stuff.

Yeah, no, this is real difficult and you have a growing family eventually, right?

You got a little one, you know, so we are trying to solve many problems and this is an issue of focus

Clarity in terms of what you want and focus and keeping your eye on the prize and this is not advice I would give to everybody but I've done as much as possible to

align myself with a life partner my wife so that we value the same things and we're working together

in concert versus in opposition to each other, and it begins there.

Do we want the same things from our lives?

Do we have clear roles and definitions about who is doing what at what time?

Because I think it's messy and when it's muddy.

And that's a problem for a lot of people okay so look at this and I've seen

relationships like this I won't betray anybody by sharing this part with you which is

the the primary breadwinner goes to work but the caregiver, the homemaker, says to the

breadwinner, I need you home. You need to be part of this family in this unit. So

the person who's going out to get the money doesn't do a great job is riddled with guilt and returns home to be with his or her family and then they spend time together but while spending time together

The breadwinner is sitting there thinking about their work, so they're not fully present in what's going on. So now you're not good to your primary function, which is to

provide for the family. It's not good to your primary function, which is to provide for the family.

It's not good to your office mates.

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