#152: How to Talk to the Opposite Sex
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
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🗓️ 6 March 2017
⏱️ 43 minutes
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Summary
How you relate to others as a single person now matters to your future marriage. Whether it’s friendships, dating online or face-to-face, we form emotional ties when we share our hearts through conversation. Join Juli and her guests at the coffee shop to find out how much to share, and when, when you’re talking with the opposite sex. Guests: Sherry Graf & Lisa Anderson
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| 0:00.0 | Well, welcome to Jabba with Julie. I'm at Mission Coffee, having coffee with Sherry Graff and Lisa Anderson. So welcome ladies to Jabba with Julie. |
| 0:10.3 | Great to be here. |
| 0:11.6 | Yeah. Nice for having us. |
| 0:12.8 | Let me give some context of why each one of you are here. Lisa, you've been on the show before. You are the host of Boundless, another great podcast. i say another because i think job with julie's |
| 0:22.9 | cool it is very very complimentary yes it is yeah it is fun but a lot of what you talk about is just |
| 0:29.5 | living life and singleness and you know just all the issues related to that and just young adulthood |
| 0:34.8 | is that did i summarize it well pretty much yeah yeah keeping it real with 20 and 30 somethings for the most part, but we're letting a few people from the fringes get into, including myself. Hey, we're still calling you in the 30s. Thank you. I appreciate it. Yeah, you've got enough millennial in you to kind of keep you going. I tested out, actually, as more millennial than most of my team members who are in their |
| 0:56.6 | 20s and 30s, so I thought that was kind of funny. |
| 0:58.8 | But that's kind of concerning to me, actually. No, I think that's cool. It's a little weird. No, I like it. It's good. Yeah, it means you're young. So I need to hang out with you and get a little more millennial on me. |
| 1:08.0 | Exactly. |
| 1:09.0 | And Sherry, you are affiliated with the navigators |
| 1:12.4 | and have done a lot of work with just women in college ministry, and you have a little |
| 1:17.5 | booklet called I Don't Get You, which is kind of the basis of our conversation today, but it's |
| 1:23.0 | about having healthy conversations, male, female conversations. And the reality is we don't know how to do |
| 1:29.7 | this very well, do we? Right. Yeah, my husband and I have been on staff with NABs. I've been on |
| 1:35.7 | staff for 20 years. So 16 of those years on a college campus, working directly with students |
| 1:41.3 | in the last four years here. So, but yeah, we talk a lot about dating with that age group and how to, and just conversations |
| 1:49.9 | with men and women, just opposite sex conversations. |
| 1:55.3 | Yeah, yeah. |
| 1:56.4 | And I'm sure that this topic, topics like this have come up a lot on Boundless. |
| 2:01.1 | So, Elisa, again, you're the pro at these conversations. |
| 2:05.4 | But dating is just so weird now. |
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