Hey guys, this is Joy.

And this is Claire. Happy November. It's here. It's my birthday month. Happy 35th birthday month to me. How are you feeling 35? My birthday is not till the end of the month. It's not until the 26th. Yeah, but it is fun to like start your birthday month. It's never too early to start celebrating your birthday month. I'm a Sagittarius.

I have a Libra rising in an Aquarius moon. I don't know what any of that means, but I know I have it.

All I know about the Sagittarius is that we have the coolest, the centaur with the bow and arrow.

How are you feeling 35? I mean, the same. I don't know. I feel like after like 21, I

stopped really carrying off. I loved turning 30. I feel like I loved turning like the decades.

Like I loved turning 40. I was like super excited about it. But I remember, I specifically remember

turning 30. I remember being at my first job out of grad

school. I remember being in the office talking to other girls and being like, oh my gosh, I'm so excited

to turn 30 because I was about to get married and like all these things were just leaving from my 20s

and I was ready to put my 20s behind. I don't really remember my 30th birthday. What was I doing? Did we do anything for a 30th birthday? It would have been in 2008. I went to Hawaii, so what did you do that year? You went to Hawaii all the time. Oh, wait, you're not, the four times. We're only, wait, we're 10 years. No, so you were, you were 40 and I was 30.

Okay, I was like, wait, are we five years or 10 years apart?

Yeah.

10 years apart.

So I was in Hawaii for my 40th, so I don't know. Jessica says, I got extremely sunburned on my 30th birthday and felt like, well, guess I'm not a grown up yet. I get somewhere like once a year and I'm like

What am I going to learn?

Do you do?

What else do you do when you're like, oh, I thought I was a grown up?

Oh, this is one that I was a grown up?

Oh, this is one that I posted about on Instagram stories a couple weeks ago and got a lot of solidarity. Yeah. When I'm on my period and I bleed through my pants. Oh, yeah. Which is like not at all uncommon. I'm not going to say it happens every cycle, but it's like, if not every cycle, close to every cycle.

I will have a moment where I'm

driving or, you know, something happens and I'm like, oh, yep. You get that like. You get the feeling. You get the feeling. You get the feeling. Yeah. If you know, you know, you know. I was getting tattooed once and the moment all of a sudden stopped and she was like, I'm so sorry. I'm on my period and I just felt that feeling. And I was like, that's all you say no more.

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