Welcome to the Gabby Rees Show where everything is an experiment.

If there was no struggle, if there was no contrast, if there was no resistance, then we wouldn't even, we wouldn't have the

contrast of knowing what it is that we don't want to then be able to know what it is that we do want,

to then get what we want. And so there has to be in some way struggle.

What I love to tell people is that your why.

You know, you say you want to do something.

Do you want to be the absolute freaking best

at what it is that you want to do?

Yes or no.

And if you're saying yes to that, you can't take that lightly.

And your why for wanting to do what it is that you want to do has to be greater than any excuse that you could ever have for not doing it. And to me that's a difference

between someone who gets what they want in life versus someone who doesn't get

what they want in life. The person who really gets what they want,

they wanted it bad enough.

You have to start testing things out. You have to be curious and open-minded. If you're someone

that's just like, oh, I know this already or nothing ever works for me, then

you're already limiting yourself. And so you have to be open to how can this work for me how can I learn something different

maybe there's a new approach or a new take that I can I can take to this.

Hi everyone, welcome to the show. My guest today is Julie Solomon.

She is the host of a podcast, the Influencer Podcast. She now has a book out called Get What You Want.

And listen, I'm typically allergic to this idea of a life coach, when I say that it's because we're just all so different and our mechanisms and what motivates us and how we organize.

But Julie's a coach.

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