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So, so, y'all, we have part three of this because we just can't seem to get finished

with 15 things that we've learned.

We like skip numbers, when over numbers.

I don't know.

Nevertheless, if you first time joined us, my name is Cornelius.

Hey, and I'm Heather.

And welcome to This Is Life.

Yeah, we're talking about our 15 years of things.

15 things we've learned over 15 years. We celebrated 15 years of marriage on August 14th of this year. So we're talking about the things. And my wife says we're at 9, so I'm going to take it. We're at 9. Number 9, have a lot of sex. Have a lot of sex.

We're just going to jump right into it.

I feel like if you withhold your body from your spouse, like that's wrong, right? Like, I feel like that's not fair. I feel like you guys need to have a communication and get on the same page. Now, everybody's tired. You got kids. You have a lot of stuff going on. I get it. Work, all the things. But I feel like as you get older, you make it less of a priority. I feel like when you're first married, you have sex 100 times a day. And then years go by and then you're like, you know, I'm tired. I don't want to or I'm exaunt. Like, it's real. Those are real things. But I have found that if we go more than like a week, we're not doing good. We're just getting petty fights over dumb stuff. Not anymore as much. But early on, we would. Remember, babe? I don't think there was ever a time we went more than a week. It's about within a week. Yeah. No, there was a time. We went like two weeks. But it's because you had the flu and so did I. And we passed around the kids. But what I'm saying, obviously life happens, right? And sex is not everything. But I feel like it brings you guys together. Like, for example, this is something I talk about because I stare at God, okay? Not my husband.

I stare at God. So if we go up a period of time where it doesn't go down and then I get pissed,

I just get, but I get internally pissed. And then I try to start a fight. And I don't even realize

I'm doing it.

And then the Lord showed me I do if we go extended period of time.

So yeah.

But I feel like it's important, especially ladies, if it's you, like then initiate it.

Don't wait for your spouse to initiate all the time, right?

If you want it to, because I used to do that, I used to just wait for Quince to always initiate.

And then I realized, hey, if I want to go down,

then I should probably initiate too because of autonomy.

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