Welcome to Sophia with an F everybody. I am joined by my new friend Shan Booty, which is her Instagram handle. I fucking love that shit.

The full name is Shan Booty, right? That's correct.

For anyone that has been listening to my show Weezy from Horrible Decisions put us in touch and Weezy was like you have to have her on. She's amazing.

She's one of the hottest people I've had on the show, by the way.

I think she's the hottest girl I've had on the show so far. I'm such an asshole.

She is one of the most sought after sex educators. She's a dating coach and relationship expert. She has over 40 million YouTube streams and is a best selling author. You're making me look bad already. I'm like, what credentials do I have?

We're basking each other's glow right now. This is mutual masturbation and I'm so here for it. I love that. Okay, so first and foremost, your IG bio says that you are Dr. Ruth meets Rihanna, which is fucking amazing.

Can you tell us about that a little bit? Yes. So in one of the lessons that I've taught people before is it's about first impressions, right?

So you have to find a way to introduce yourself and you live in LA as well too, right? I live in New York, but right now I'm in Utah. That's a long story. I can explain it after.

People often confuse you, telling it in LA. The question you get in LA constantly and probably in most places in America these days is what do you do? And yet so many women have zero idea how to answer this question.

Like they'll stumble instead of every single time. So I was like, here's a formula that I want you to learn to describe how you do in a way that invites conversation, puts you in a role of authority and allows people to ask you more.

So women, I think are naturally prone to downplaying what they do for a living. So here is one of less of yet. You do for yourself.

This is like the fucking best way to start this because when you were saying that I'm like, when I get asked that question, I have no clue.

None. So please, let's do it. We have to just get it before an actor.

She's putting on the spot. She's putting on the fucking spot. I say I'm Sophia Franklin. I just started a new podcast with you with an F. You might formally know me from my old show called her daddy, which that right there needs to stop.

Why am I like talking about the old show I was on, but it was like a new thing. I just barely started this show.

Oh my God, I don't fucking know. I just kind of wing it. Great. So far every time every time I just wing it and I say different shit because most people would say like, Oh, you know, like I just I work in media. I like a speed.

And then you're like, Oh, it's and when people say it in a certain way that makes it feel like they're uncomfortable. No one's going to ask you more questions about it.

But the truth is the thing that you want to talk about is a thing that you know the most about and you know the most about your work. So if somebody is like, Oh, you're in podcasting incredible. Just this podcast like that.

And then now you can continue the conversation. Right. The worst thing happened is you meet somebody and say, what do you do? You downplay your shit. And then they take control and start talking about something you know nothing about.

And then you can't contribute and put yourself in the best light. So like when somebody asks you what you do for a living, that's an alley you to show off how bad ass you are and to start the conversation in a place of authority.

So here's the formula. Okay. So you say, I am a so a matter of fact. So I am a podcaster.

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