148: Nurturing Curiosity (with Sara Bates)
Vibrant Happy Women
Jen Riday
4.8 • 671 Ratings
🗓️ 21 January 2019
⏱️ 66 minutes
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About this Episode:
Perfectionism and the "shoulds" can really cramp our happiness because they prevent us from doing things simply for the sake of enjoyment. In this episode guest Sara Bates shares how she's learned to approach life from an energy of curiosity and freedom instead.
What You'll Learn:
- How to let go of the "shoulds" and perfectionism and instead approach life from a place of non-judgmental curiosity (without an agenda or need for validation)
- To do what you love without judgment.
- Why you must ignore the "inner voice of the oppressor"
- The magic of starting your morning routine at night
- And much more
Links From This Episode:
- Vibrant Happy Women Club
- The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown
- Four Tendencies by Gretchen Rubin
- Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert
- Google Earth
- National Novel Writing Month
- To All the Boys I've Loved Before
- Andy Weir (author of Artemis, The Martian and more…)
- Melissa Joulwan's mayo recipe
- Love Warrior: A Memoir by Glennon Doyle
- Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
- Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine
- Jen on Instagram
- Jen on Facebook
- 116: Choose the Bigger Life with Gretchen Rubin
- 48: Reawakening Sex and Intimacy Through Self-Care, Trust and Listening with Kimberly Johnson
- 36: You Are Already Loved: Claiming Your Seat at the Table with Andrea Wenburg
- 28: Comparison is the Thief to Joy with Melissa Joulwan
- Good Life Project podcast
- Curiosity and the Passion Fallacy (YouTube) by Elizabeth Gilbert
- Google earth
- jenriday.com/survey
- Skinnytaste's Loaded Baked Muffins
- Andy Weir TEDx talk
- Sara on Instagram
- Ender's Game by Orson Scott Card
- Lord of the Rings by JRR Tolkien
- Ready Player One (edited)
- Twilight series by Stephenie Meyer
- Harry Potter series by J.K. Rowling
- KitchenAid immersion blender
- Love Warrior by Glennon Doyle
- Get a free audio book with a 30-day trial membership with Audible by going to audible.com/happywomen or texting 'HAPPYWOMEN' to 500-500.
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| 0:00.0 | You're listening to the Vibrant Happy Women podcast, episode number 148. |
| 0:05.3 | We're talking about letting go of perfectionism in the shoulds and kindling those feelings |
| 0:11.0 | of curiosity, giving yourself permission to do things just for the sake of enjoying them. |
| 0:17.7 | Stay tuned. |
| 0:20.1 | Hi, I'm Dr. Jen Rydy, former burned out mom of six turned |
| 0:25.4 | happiness whisperer. And I'm here to help you get off that hamster wheel and make time for |
| 0:32.0 | yourself without the guilt. So you can live a balanced, calm, heart-centered life. With over 2.5 million downloads, |
| 0:42.7 | this is the Vibrant Happy Women podcast. Hey there, thanks for stopping by. I'm so glad you're here |
| 0:49.4 | listening to another episode of Vibrant Happy Women. We're talking all about letting go of perfectionism |
| 0:55.9 | in the shoulds today so that you can just be curious without judgment. My guest today is Sarah Bates |
| 1:03.4 | and she is a friend of mine. She has called into the show several times and I was so excited she |
| 1:09.4 | agreed to be on the show. But you're going to love what |
| 1:11.6 | she has to say about curiosity and living a life filled with judgment-free curiosity. So you can |
| 1:18.1 | enjoy things just for the sake of enjoying them. So important for all of us. But first, I would like |
| 1:24.0 | to give a shout out to our review of the week. Grateful Kalyn. |
| 1:28.2 | She wrote, hi, Jen. |
| 1:29.4 | I hope you read this to know what to impact your podcast has been on my life. |
| 1:33.5 | Last year, I made a resolution to start listening to podcasts, and yours was the first one |
| 1:37.8 | I listened to and remains my number one favorite. |
| 1:41.1 | I've listened to every episode since last year and I feel like a completely changed |
| 1:45.0 | person. Kailin, thank you so much for leaving that review. I appreciate it. Everyone, I read these |
| 1:51.4 | reviews and they mean so much. So if you have never left a review, I would love for you to do so at |
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