1415: How Smart Women Lose DECADES
CONSISTENT by Primal Potential
Elizabeth Benton
4.9 • 2.7K Ratings
🗓️ 23 May 2026
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Summary
A client walked into Boston with a sentence she was certain was the real story. Aside from my weight, I'm healthy. It wasn't a lie. It was the answer that made every other question stop being a question.
In this episode, I walk you through the conversation that finally cracked that sentence open — and what she let go of to move.
This is what working with me looks like. The next honest question, asked by someone tracking you closely enough to catch the slip.
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| 0:00.0 | If you want to be more consistent, you're in the right place. I'm Elizabeth Benton. Welcome to Consistent, |
| 0:07.8 | a podcast by Primal Potential that is for all of you who feel frustrated by your lack of progress or |
| 0:14.0 | overwhelmed by all the change that you want to make in your life. Here, we stop frantically chasing new habits and start |
| 0:22.6 | strategically building a structure of consistency. Let's get into it. Hello, and welcome back |
| 0:31.4 | to the Primal Potential Podcast. I am Elizabeth Benton. Thanks so much for joining me. We are just |
| 0:37.1 | going to get right to it. |
| 0:39.1 | I need you to hear that sometimes the perspective you need is a perspective you can't get to on your |
| 0:46.1 | own. I mean, this is true for me. And realizing it has made such a difference in my growth and in my consistency and in my problem solving |
| 0:57.6 | and making sure that I don't stay in a struggle for a second longer than I need to. |
| 1:02.6 | The awareness that often the perspective I need is one I can't get to on my own. |
| 1:08.5 | It's true when I work with clients. |
| 1:10.6 | I want to give you a way to see this. I'm going to use |
| 1:12.4 | my marriage as an example because sometimes it's easier to see things when it's not something |
| 1:18.0 | that we feel personally connected to, maybe defensive of or resistant to. When Chris and I are in a |
| 1:26.0 | conflict, sometimes all I can see is my own anger or my own viewpoint. |
| 1:32.3 | I feel justified. |
| 1:34.7 | I feel certain that I'm right. |
| 1:37.1 | He's wrong. |
| 1:37.8 | And there is a healthier perspective available to me. |
| 1:41.7 | But I can't get there on my own in that moment, right? |
| 1:47.2 | From inside the perspective of my anger or my indignation or my hurt, and I need somebody, |
| 1:56.3 | and I do have a few specific people in my life for this, I need somebody to help me see what I can't see |
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