Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

As I record this, my husband and I are preparing for our trip to Mexico City.

I've never been, I'm so excited, it's a birthday trip for me,

plus it's also our wedding anniversary on January 15.

January 15, 2024, we've been married for 14 years.

Oh my!

And people ask us, you know, quite often how do you have such a good marriage, how do you have a

good marriage while working together, do you have any advice for new couples etc. And I have to say that this area of my life is an

area that I haven't had too many struggles in right we all have our areas to you know that give us a lot of opportunities for growth and marriage certainly is one.

But I would say overall my marriage is an easy part of my life and that's because I've done a lot of work on myself, right? The work that I

share here with you on the podcast, the work that I share within self-coaching society,

the best thing I've done for my marriage for sure is working on my own consciousness, working on my own awareness, understanding how my mind works, understanding my belief system.

It's funny because I think sometimes people assume that a good marriage is,

oh you know it's compromise and it's doing the work together and it's almost like the

state of suffering or toil that you have to go through and I don't believe that I think that if I'm constantly working on my mind, I'm aware of what my mind is doing, I'm aware of my emotions, and I'm conscious, right? I'm constantly in my own personal development world, then that allows a lot of things in my life to be easier.

Right, because I've, you know, even recently I saw a friend and she had a lot to say about her husband, a lot of things that weren't great, frankly.

And I asked her, I said, you know, what's your part in this do you think?

I know that you know, we can easily go there with what he's doing wrong but you know what's your part could

there be a part that you're playing here this is what doing the work does right

it allows us to be aware and conscious of us, of our part of the energy we're bringing, of the contribution that we're making in our marriages, in our work, in our friendships, with our money, whatever it may be.

So when it comes to creating a great business, creating a great marriage, creating a great

life experience, it's so funny how it's so easy to judge any of those things based on what's

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