Selfishness is behind all wars. It's behind all crime. It's the root cause of almost all

divorces. It's a huge problem and we cannot be selfish and be happy because God did not create us to reach

in to help ourselves he created us to let him work through us to help other people and

then as we sew those seeds of helping them he will help us. Have you ever said what about me?

Well, welcome to the Talk It Out Podcast because that is what we are talking about today

and I think we've all said that at one time or another.

What about me and what I need and what I want and nobody cares?

So as we talk it out today with Joyce and Aaron, we are going to talk about the difference

that a life can have when our focus shifts from those what about me things to the things of

God and the things that he has for us that are wonderful. So let's kind of

begin with where did this whole what about me thing come from?

So first Joyce, do you have any idea how many times you have done the robot the what about me robot at a conference no more than

if I even say what about me everybody starts going do the robot I mean I've done it in India

I've done it in Africa the thing that's interesting is no matter what language

people speak they understand selfishness and they understand

that they do have themselves on their mind a lot but yeah very quickly many

years ago well wait don't explain it okay because

because wait because we're gonna let you explain it from a conference oh okay

so we're gonna start right now if you're not familiar with the robot you want to see this and if you are you're going to love it.

So this is Joyce explaining this whole What About Me concept and what God showed her and then we'll talk more about

it.

I mean I know how I was and probably none of you were as bad as I was because I was pretty bad

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