139. How to have better first dates!

The Psychology of your 20s

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Mental Health, Self-improvement, Fitness, Education, Relationships, Science, Social Sciences, How To, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.9 • 1.3K Ratings

🗓️ 31 October 2023

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Dating in our 20s can feel like a minefield, a lot of people don't know what they want, what they like, we get ghosted, we get stood up, and then there are the first dates. First dates can feel intimidating but today we are breaking down my 10 tips to have the best first dates of your life. By adopting the mindset that you are there to learn more about yourself and have a fun experience, we take first dates off a pedestal and lower the stakes.

Dating is a skill than anything else, it is something that we get better at over time, so what are some ways that we can have better first dates from a psychological perspective, how can we really draw these people in, feel our best, feel most charismatic and in our power but also able to get what we want out of this experience: from the scent you wear, to the location you should choose, the nonverbal cues you should be putting out, how to leverage the power of suspense, all of that and more in this episode. Listen now.

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0:12.4	Clark and Reese have changed the way we can women's basketball just because of one single game.
0:12.6	Clark and Reese have changed the way we consume women's basketball.
0:17.1	And on this new season, we'll cover all things,
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0:26.0	The Black Effect Podcast Network is sponsored by Diet Coke.
0:30.0	Hey, I'm Jiano Predente.
0:32.0	And I'm Jamek Jackson Gadsden. We're the'm Jiano Predente. And I'm Jame Jackson Gadsden.
0:34.0	We're the host of Let's Talk offline from LinkedIn News and I-Heart Podcasts.
0:38.0	There's a lot to figure out when you're just starting your career.
0:40.7	That's where we come in.
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0:47.0	like negotiation expert Mori to Harry Poor.
0:49.0	If you start thinking about negotiations
0:51.0	as just a conversation, then I think it sort of eases us a little bit.
0:54.8	Listen to Let's Talk offline on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcast.
1:01.5	I'm Carrie Champion and this is season four of naked sports. Up first I explore the making of a rivalry.
1:08.0	Caitlin Clark versus Angel Reese.
1:10.0	Every great player needs a foil.
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