139: Avoid These Common Sex Life Pitfalls

Relationship Advice

Colter Bloxom

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.4 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 21 March 2018

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

There can be many areas in our lives and relationships that can cause frustration and disappointment. Your sex life shouldn't be one of them. Learning how to communicate your needs and desires, understanding your partner's sex drive and confronting sex life negativity are just a few ways to prevent some of the common troubles many couples run into. Listen to today's show to prevent these common sex life pitfalls from wreaking havoc on your relationship. In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Learn how to talk about sex, your desires and fantasies with your partner. Avoid getting distracted during sex and become more present for a better experience. Navigate the desire discrepancies in your relationship. Do you or your partner want to have sex more often? There are ways to compromise around this! Understanding your partners sex drive and what 'gets their motor going'. Confronting any negativity surrounding your sex life. And much more! Jessa Zimmerman is a licensed sex therapist whose work focuses on helping couples who have a good relationship but who are avoiding sex because it's become stressful, negative, disappointing or pressured. She teaches, coaches, and supports people as they go through her 9-phase experiential process that allows them real world practice in changing their relationship and their sex life. She is the host of the Better Sex podcast and will be releasing her first book later this year. Full show notes and episode links at: http://idopodcast.com/139 Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Do you want to hear more on this topic? Does your sex life need some help? If so, you're not alone. Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors YogaGlo: YogaGlo is yoga and meditation website that you can use anywhere. You can practice in your own space, on your own time, for just eighteen dollars per month! That’s less than a single class at most yoga studios! They have thousands of classes, at all levels, taught by some of the best teachers in the world. Get your first two weeks of YogaGlo FREE when you sign up on YogaGlo.com/IDO. Lovelands: Lovelands is a highly readable guide to creating the relationship and life you most deeply desire, by psychologist Dr Debra Campbell. If you’ve ever wondered why you keep going wrong in love and how to make lasting change for the better — Lovelands will show you how to make that change, not just in your relationship but in every area of your life. Get your copy of Lovelands today — available in hardcover, Amazon and Audible. If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	And Take me to the place in the middle of the sun.
0:17.0	Take me to the place in the middle of the sun. What is up? I do podcast listeners. Thanks for joining us today. Thank you for being here with us on this
0:38.2	whatever day it is that you're listening. It is another beautiful day here in Costa Rica and we just got done with a great chat with
0:47.8	Jessa Zimmerman and Jessa is a licensed sex therapist whose work focuses on helping couples who have a good relationship
0:56.2	but want to have better sex.
0:58.6	And she is also the host of the Better Sex Podcast and we'll be releasing her first book on guess what topic,
1:06.1	sex later this year and she has a lot of great stuff for us today.
1:12.2	We talk about the five areas that can be pitfalls when it comes to your sex life.
1:20.0	And if you are human and in a relationship there's a pretty good chance that you
1:26.3	are going to encounter one if not all of these areas and it's just really
1:32.1	important to listen to the tips that she gives but
1:36.8	then to realize that just by listening things aren't going to fix themselves
1:41.1	and so like a lot of this stuff on this podcast,
1:44.4	it's great that you're getting the information,
1:46.8	but really make the effort, try to implement
1:49.9	at least one tip from these episodes.
1:52.2	I know even Sarah and I,
1:54.0	we say it all the time, we're not perfect.
1:57.7	We are busy, we are parents, and we in 2018 want to do a better job of actually taking the advice.
2:06.6	It's like what's the saying?
2:08.3	Like if you took your own advice, you know, like take your own advice
2:11.4	oftentimes. And so but actually doing it so so
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