I have not done an unprompted podcast for a year. I have not done an unprompted and an unscripted

podcast for a year. I have always come prepared. I've come with notes. I have come sassy and fantastic and bombastic.

And then I had this moment where I was doing a live call today. And not only was I doing this

live call, but I was also thinking about how it all started. I was thinking back, how did we get

here, ladies and gentlemen? And we got here from good old feminine energy when i went on to

ticot back in 2022 i thought i would be nice and anonymous no one would ever see me or know me

and i could tell you all the juicy details and thoughts i ever had about men and women and their

dynamic the things that were not allowed to say you know the things that are a little bit under the radar, as it were, in terms of like what's socially acceptable, or even over the radar. I think I was progressive and now it's kind of accepted. And I thought I'd say all those things. And I got flooded with questions from women about how to this, how to that, how to the other one. And one of the big ones that keep coming up still, and this is what I'm going to dedicate

this podcast to, and it's not going to be scripted, it's going to be from the heart, and it's

just going to be a monologue to you.

The girl who has clicked on this, who is tired of feeling anxious, who is tired of feeling

like she's got to balance the weight

of the world on her shoulders when it comes to making sure that he sees you, making sure

that he likes you, making sure that you're enough, making sure that you do enough, making sure

you don't text much, but not too little, that you are funny, but not too fun, and you are

just jumping through hoops and you are tired baby girl

i was you and if you clicked on this video or if you clicked on this podcast then no i see you and i've

been you i've been exhausted and if you're a boy still applies doesn't matter right but usually

it's us girls who get into this toxic soup and loop of anxious attachment.

And the main question that I've had come up a lot and I've been teaching on this concept since I started in 22, that's not when I started doing my life coaching.

But that is when I started posting was mothering him and how it kills your desire and your relationship.

Now, I mention this in a lot of my podcasts.

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