137: Phrases That Make You Lose Power (and What To Say Instead)
BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko
Margarita Nazarenko
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🗓️ 2 November 2025
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Summary
If your language leaks neediness, people treat you like a backup plan. In this episode I give you everyday phrases to retire and exactly what to say instead so you sound soft, certain, and high value in dating, relationships, and life.
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| 0:00.0 | Your first great love story is free when you sign up for a free 30-day trial at audible.co. |
| 0:05.5 | That's audible.co.ukesl-wondery. |
| 0:11.7 | How to keep the human. |
| 0:17.7 | Oh, hi. It's me again. my car ready to tell you things that we are retiring. |
| 0:27.7 | Retiring. |
| 0:28.4 | We've got a few months left, two, one, I'm not sure, until it is 2026. |
| 0:34.4 | And we're going to retire these things, ladies. |
| 0:36.1 | We're going to absolutely chuck these things |
| 0:39.4 | in the metaphorical bin and i'm going to tell you what we are adopting instead okay so these are |
| 0:46.2 | phrases things that you say things that make you not as alluring not as ent not as spicy, not as all those good things that you |
| 0:57.0 | could be, she said as she opens her roof to illuminate the situation further. |
| 1:01.9 | I need you to be exactly who you're meant to be in 2026, okay? |
| 1:08.3 | I need you to be alluring, amazing, sure of yourself, unbothered. |
| 1:15.2 | Unbothered is what we need to be, okay? Absolutely unbothered about what he thinks because he's |
| 1:21.2 | auditioning for you. Okay. So phrase number one, just in general, just in life, we're going to hit these pretty fast, |
| 1:28.8 | okay, because we need to get on them, is, sorry for the late reply, sorry I'm late, |
| 1:34.8 | sorry I this, sorry I that, because we as women, sorry a lot, we're always freaking sorry. |
| 1:40.8 | We just always sorry. |
| 1:42.7 | And I've had enough, okay? |
| 1:46.1 | I've had enough of apologizing and hearing apologies from women who did nothing wrong. I never hear it from men. I'm sorry this. |
| 1:50.9 | I'm sorry that. I'm sorry the other one. Unless you're actually sorry, unless you actually love someone, |
| 1:55.5 | do not be saying sorry. Do not be saying all these things frivolously, okay? Because words have power and words |
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