Hello lovely humans I'm Y. O'Lee and you are listening to sex stories a

podcast where lovely lovers come on to share stories about come-ons and

comings all in an effort to make the world

a sexier place.

Our guest today is a 28 year old queer white gender fluid sex educator, formerly a consumer

psychologist who worked for Colgate.

They are a bratty bottom who likes to pretend to be on top.

She's Polyamorous in their first monaugamish relationship

and is into spanking, wrestled and shower sex.

Originally from Quebec, she now lives in Portland, Oregon.

Welcome, Sam.

Thank you so much for having me.

I'm really excited for this conversation.

Me too. I have so many questions to ask you but I would like to start with today if you had to rate yourself on a sexual shameometer with one being shameless and 10 being super full of shame. Where do you fall today? I think I'm in a solid three I would say you know I don't think I'm ever

going to be at a 100% shameless that's just not my personality.

I'm kind of like a nervous human being to be did with.

But yeah, no, I think I've come a long way,

definitely have moments where like a dip into this if you want a really quick little example of yeah I just received this really fun BDS game. It's called funishment and it's like a card game where you get from.

It was super fun so my partner and I have started doing punishment Friday is where we just play

the punishment game. A shout out to punishment I guess. Yeah this isn't meant to punishment, I guess. Yeah.

This isn't meant to be an ad, but you know.

But one of the cards I got this past week

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