1366: What Poker Taught Me About Life, Confidence, and Making Better Decisions with Debbie Boman

Real Estate Rockstars Podcast

Aaron Amuchastegui

Investing, Careers, Business

4.6 • 864 Ratings

🗓️ 21 May 2026

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

Most entrepreneurs and high achievers struggle with knowing when to take action and what to focus on—until they realize clarity isn't about doing more, but about understanding which season you're in. Debbie’s story reveals how embracing life's natural rhythms, like playing poker and navigating personal loss, can transform your confidence and decision-making. In this episode, you’ll discover how to recognize your current season to make better choices without second-guessing. Debbie shares powerful lessons from her journey—how she mastered the art of "folding" in real estate, learned to trust her instincts, and found confidence through life's unpredictability. You’ll also hear about her emotional moments that brought real perspective and how they shaped her strength as a businesswoman and mom. We break down: the importance of clarity in high-stakes moments, the secret power of “knowing what you can control,” and how to apply real-life lessons from poker and personal loss to your business and life. If you're feeling overwhelmed or uncertain about your next move, this episode is an essential reminder that true clarity comes from understanding your season—before you place your bet. Perfect for entrepreneurs, real estate agents, and anyone facing tough decisions—Debbie’s story inspires you to tune out the noise, trust your instincts, and play the hand you’re dealt with confidence. Clarity isn’t about controlling every outcome, but about knowing exactly where to place your bet. Are you ready to identify your season and win? Links: Follow Debbie Boman on Instagram Follow Sara Denig on Instagram Follow Christina Leavenworth on Instagram Follow Aaron Amuchastegui on Instagram Get Hundreds of FREE Real Estate Tools From the Toolbox

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0:00.0	Okay, I am very excited about our next speaker, Debbie, a lot of you guys have met her in the rooms over the past few years.
0:24.7	I first met Debbie at my Inner Circle investor mastermind.
0:30.0	I mean, her story is a little bit like Brian's in the sense that the, you know,
0:33.6	I think she had like followed me online, interacted with me online,
0:37.1	heard about different things. And then our event is it expected to do that.
0:41.5	It's a board an awesome dollar thing for 10 people to come hang out in my office for two days.
0:47.4	I make them all apply to make sure they could present to other people about so they pay to come in and teach.
0:53.3	So everybody pays to come in and teach so they can hear from the other ones.
0:57.4	And that's how she first got in the room, got a lot of my attention from that,
1:01.6	started going to rock stars and lots of other things as well.
1:04.7	So Debbie, let's see you.
1:20.3	Daniel, we're on? And Debbie is super excited about speaking. She's not nervous at all.
1:25.6	There's your clicker. Hang on, grab this. And then grab that. And let's do a little mic, Mike.
1:26.7	Hello, hello. Amazing.
1:30.4	You're leaving me?
1:33.1	First of all, really quickly
1:34.8	off the record. I'm very good
1:37.3	in this room, I'm like a moment.
1:39.4	Raise your name.
1:42.1	You can't hear me?
1:44.1	What? Okay. I'll just hold my head like this and then it will work.
1:51.7	That won't be a problem at all.
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