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New Mindset, Who Dis?

136 - No more sloppy seconds

New Mindset, Who Dis?

Case Kenny

Inspiration, Relationships, Mindset, Education, Society & Culture, Wellness, Self-improvement, Selfhelp, Personaldevelopment, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Motivation

4.96.1K Ratings

🗓️ 29 August 2019

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

In this episode I talk about what happens when you stop settling for a "sloppy seconds" version of yourself. I talk about how to "write your own swimming pool," what that means and why it's the key to becoming the person you want to become. Follow me on Instagram: @case.kenny https://www.instagram.com/case.kenny

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello, hello, and welcome to the new mindset who this podcast my name is case Kenny at case.cannyon

0:08.0

Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I create short no BS episodes dedicated to helping you be the person

0:15.0

You're meant to be leave your comfort zone and live a fulfilling and purposeful life. Let's go

0:30.0

All right welcome episode 136 and I want to start this episode by saying and

0:53.0

I'm saying this not to get more followers truthfully that's not a big deal to me but what is a big deal to me is showing you that

1:08.0

Really I think you could be whoever you want in life and you should never judge a book by its cover like it's a powerful thing to know that for yourself that you could be all kinds of things totally different things you could have different interests different hobbies different styles

1:21.0

And no matter what you should own that you could be a a lady in the streets but a freaking the sheets isn't that the same and I say this because personally if you don't know me or if you just saw me or heard something about me you might have a tendency to jump to a conclusion about who I am right

1:41.0

Right, douchebag look at that guy listens to a lot of house music drinks a lot of protein goes to the gym he says things like lit and fam like forget about it forget this guy right at least that's kind of what I assume people might might take out a glance but like that's not who I am far from it like those things do not define me I'm defined by other things my mission my purpose my passion my writing creativity those kinds of things and the same goes for you in big world

2:10.0

in big ways like you have things that define you that go so far beyond how you look the things you own where you live all those things so I just wanted to show you this truth and what better way to show you then who I am in real life

2:26.0

IRL is not a kid say IRL IRL case Kenny so you follow me on Instagram at case that Kenny give me a follow there I'll show you what I'm talking about so rant over there but I am very passionate about that that you are who you are based on who you are not the things you wear the things you own that that's not it you your truth goes so far beyond that so check it out at case that Kenny and I'll get right into it with this episode and you might be wondering what I'm talking about with the title

2:56.0

of the podcast well sit tight because it's gonna make a lot of sense in a minute and I think I think it'll be something you'll you'll never forget that you can really take the heart and live by it's a pretty simple thing but but the start here's a truth that I've learned recently and admittedly it's a truth that kind of snuck up on me like it's snuck up behind me and kind of scared me like literally I saw this quote the other day and I wrote it down immediately because it literally stopped me in my tracks when I saw when I read it and I was like I'm

3:26.0

like I didn't really know what to think and the quote said the following it said one day you'll stop being asked what you want to be when you grow up and instead you'll be asked what you wanted to be one more time one day you'll stop being asked what you want to be when you grow up and instead you'll be asked what you wanted to be and I read that I was like oh damn damn like that hit me that slapped me around a bit and that's what I want to talk about in this episode that have you are you

3:56.0

doing everything you can to become who you want to be that's the question and I'm not talking about your career here not talking about I want to be an astronaut and that's not what I'm talking about I'm talking about who WHO who you want to be the person you want to become are you doing everything you can to try new things push yourself to really actually for real become who you want to be and what you want to represent who you want to represent or

4:25.4

you know are you kind of just guessing taking what's easy what's given to you and hoping you'll just kind of magically become that person because you know as much as much as I tell you and I talk about in the podcast all the time that you know I firmly believe you can change who you are at any time in your life that you could stop doing one thing start doing another at any time you know as much as I as I say you can hit reset and be someone new at a certain point like your habits and your

4:55.3

character they start to speak for themselves and at a certain point it gets harder and harder and harder to undo who you've become it becomes harder and if you're not paying attention you can become someone who has left a lot of potential on the table and I for one never want to be that person I never want to be that person who left

5:14.9

potential on the table and who regrets it and I don't think you want to either you know you don't want to ask yourself who who did I want to be when I grow up and then realize that you're nothing like that person I don't want that you don't want that so I'll ask you right now who do you want to be when you grow up seriously I'll ask you that ask yourself that question who do you want to be when you grow up and I don't care if you're 17 25 35 45 whatever ask yourself this

5:44.9

I ask myself this I'm 31 I said you okay when you grow up who do you want to be and I ask myself that and I wrote down some of the answers for you I said I want to be kind of an

5:59.2

empathetic I want to be kind towards myself kind towards others I want to be successful but also equally as focused on impact rather than dollars I said I want to be I said I want to be a confident

6:10.3

motherfucker I said I don't ever want to be overly self conscious and I want to make decisions for me not based on what others think I want to be spontaneous I want to be anything but boring boring I want to travel try new things meet new people I said I want to be creative I want to write speaking create I want to have millions of like minded people enjoy what I do and I said I want to share my life with someone who shares in those desires but who compliments them and keeps me in check my ego pushes me out of my

6:40.2

comfort zone and reminds me of that purpose when I forget it so those are some of the things I wrote down about who I want to become so then the question from there is

6:51.0

am I doing everything in my power to become that person to become that dude that's the question am I pushing myself am I being spontaneous am I being creative am I willing to

7:02.1

embarrass myself try new things meet new people travel all those things I listed or or am I not right that's the question it's pretty

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